How do I know if he came in me?

freaking out! I hooked up with some one & we didn’t use protection. He stopped after like 4/5 mins. When i asked why he said because he finished. But i didn’t see any ejaculation, not on me, not on the bed , no where… so like where the hell did he finish at? After sex when i went to wipe myself there were secretions on the towel && i don’t know if that’s just from me …or? I don't know what to do && NO I’m not asking him. So can some one tell me if I’m just being delusional or do i have something to worry about? No trolls please this is a serious matter
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  • I think you do have something to worry about. Unless he didn't orgasm at all... then... he came inside you. Use protection. This IS a serious situation, but it was very foreseeable, and easily avoidable. I hope this works out alright for you. But you're an IDIOT if you let guys fuck you raw after this.

    Also... you SHOULD ask him! It's fucking absurd beyond words, that a guy might have cum inside you... but you're too shy to ask him. Be a goddamn adult and ask him. This is potentially serious, and you need to know. NOBODY ON GAG IS GOING TO BE ABLE TO ANSWER THIS. Ask him. Be a grown-up.

    Honestly, and genuinely... best of luck. 🙂

  • Sounds like he probably came in you. You'll know for sure if you start missing periods and grow a bump.

    • Omgg I’m scared

    • Take plan b or wait until you miss your period. In the future if pregnancy scares you try using condoms or birth control.

    • Also, maybe a new boyfriend if the guy's only lasting 5 mins 😆

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  • If you are so afraid, then why didn't you insist on using protection in the first place?
    What's the point of worrying now and asking us? How would we know if he really did came in you or not?
    This is a question you have to ask him. Anyway, even if he does not ejaculate, there may be pre-cum, so you may also get pregnant from that.

  • First... I agree with the other person who suggested you get yourself to the pharmacy and get yourself Plan-B.

    Next, a reminder from health class, which I hope you had while you were in school.

    Very simple,

    Penis in Vagina = Baby Maybe...

    If that isn't your plan, use protection

  • He most likely did cum inside you. It would be best to take a morning-after pill to prevent a pregnancy from happening. They work when taken within 72 hours (3 days).

  • Maybe he just did not have much of a load at the time. May have masturbated shortly before. Since you did not use protection, you are not worried about pregnancey, so what is there to freak out about? Calm down.

  • Yes, he did. See whether your next period is late and get an inexpensive and easy pregnancy test.

  • Why wouldn't you ask him?

  • Sorry are u a fool why wpuldnt u ask but then are acting scared clearly he finished inside u if its nowhere else

    • Because i find it hard to believe one would be that careless to do that… that’s risky as hell.

    • Not risky for him and its equally as risky to hookup with someone without protection if u don't care about your sexual health why would he

  • Girl he came, but a plan B. That happened to me last year. You don’t have to see it to know he did.

    • Buy***

  • He may not have ejaculated. That doesn't really matter because, if he's inside you, his penile fluids (precum lubrication) can contain active sperm, which could get you pregnant, and STDs that he could pass on to you.

    • Why would he say he came if he didn’t ejaculate?

    • Men can experience orgasm without ejaculating. It's not that common but it does happen.

  • Unless you're on birth control you better ask him so you know what to do otherwise in a month you're going to find out that do you know you're pregnant and then you're going to be asking him if he wants to be involved in the baby's life instead of if he came inside you

  • The guy isn’t trustworthy enough to give an honest answer, just go get the morning after pill while you still can and be done with this and hopefully not do that again.

  • If you didn’t even notice there was any of his semen inside you then it’s very unlikely he got you pregnant with it.

  • if you ask a dumb question, expect dumb answers

    • No I’m just trying to convince myself it didn’t happen ,

    • like i said, if you ask a dumb question, expect dumb answers

    • How is this a dumb question. Us women can’t really can’t feel if men come in us or not ! This not dumb

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  • He prob did. Definitely pre cum. Don’t leave your risk of pregnancy in his hands.

  • Well girl alway use protection. Right now cool it wait for your peroid time

  • If he had a smile on his face while still inside you he probably came

  • He probably did finish inside you but sometimes it stays in, I hope you were on the pill, if not you still have time for the plan B pill