How do I know if my pussy is not too loose?

[silly_pie]

I often feel like I'm too loose. I never had anyone tell me that I'm tight despite of having experiences. That's one of my biggest insecurities. How do I get over it? Sometimes I feel like I'm not much please because of it. You know, men never tell if you're loose. They just move on. I can insert 4 fingers at once. Is that too much?

[TadCurious]

I think the whole "tight"/"loose" thing about vaginas is kind of like the new "thigh gap" worry. The vagina is a muscular organ (I'm talking about the real vagina, not the vulva that many people inaccurately call the "vagina"). It can expand to accommodate a baby, and it's designed to conform itself to whatever is put inside it, as long as the girl is sexually aroused. So the fact that you can insert 4 fingers doesn't mean you're "loose." The vagina isn't like a rubber band, where the more it's stretched the less it will go back to its original size and shape.

[Anon-ymous1]

Yeah but dude, there is looser and tighter. For sure.

[coralee]

@Anon-ymous1 No honey there isn't. The majority of vaginas are capable of expanding to accommodate the expulsion of an 8 pound baby. If it can't then that is an abnormality and extremely rare. That looseness or tightness you feel has to do with arousal levels and how wet she is. A woman that is extremely turned on will feel looser then one who is less aroused. The vagina is like an elastic it stretches to accommodate things and then snaps back. The only thing capable of "loosing" a vagina is an 8 pound baby and even then within months it reverts back to it's original state.

[Anon-ymous1]

@coralee... Uhm. Do you have a penis?

[coralee]

@Anon-ymous1 Do you have a vagina? As I said it might feel loose or tight to you but that doesn't change the fact that vagina's tighten up or loosen based on arousal. The same vagina can feel looser or tighter on any given day of the week. You can't be too loose. If you want to continue a widely discredited myth then by my guest kiddo. The facts don't change.

[Anon-ymous1]

@coralee I don't understand. You literally just said "it may feel loose or tight to you," so... what are you talking about. You just admitted that there can be a difference, and then right afterward, said there's no difference. You don't have a dick, and have never had sex with a girl, so again, how would you know how it feels? Other than... you can't?

[coralee]

@Anon-ymous1 ALL Vaginas can expand to expel an 8 pound baby and then in short time goes back to normal. Your penis and that of any man's penis can not compete with that. If giving birth can't permanently alter the original state of a vagina your penis can't either. The vagina does NOT get loose. If a woman is nervous, not into it, or not aroused enough she may feel tighter. If those issues are addressed then she is going to open up like any other woman out there.

[Anon-ymous1]

@coralee Yeah I already heard you on that. And none of it discounts any of what I said. You aren't a guy, and have never had sex with a girl. You don't know what you're talking about in terms of how it feels for us, and furthermore, you literally can't. Stop pretending you do. I wouldn't tell you that I KNOW FOR A FACT that a bigger dick or something is less pleasurable if you're a girl getting fucked, because how on Earth could I possibly know that? Am I a girl? Do I have a pussy? Will I ever get fucked by a dick either large or small? No? Okay then. Why would I then pretend that you don't know what you're talking about if you told me you could feel a difference, as a girl? "Well, uh, that's a myth." Uh, no. It isn't.

[TadCurious]

@coralee Coralee, I think you hit the nail on the head. What a lot of guys who don't know any better feel as tightness or looseness is largely a function of the girl's arousal. Ignorant guys who have sex with a virgin, for example, mistake the "tightness" at the entrance to her vagina as her entire vagina being "tight" because she hasn't had sex. (That's part of the whole "having lots of sex makes your vagina loose" myth.) What they're experiencing is a girl having sex for the first time whose anxiousness causes the muscles at the entrance to her vagina to tense up, making insertion painful. And guys like Blue Anon, of course, take that to mean she's "tight" because she hasn't been reamed out yet by a penis. It's just blatant ignorance on the part of so many dudes who don't understand female anatomy.

[Anon-ymous1]

Maybe you need to branch out more, my man.

[coralee]

Exactly!!!

[Anon-ymous1]

I'm still not clear on how both of you are missing something so simple: Saying that there is no difference between girls' parts and that all girls are equally tight or loose is like saying all penises are exactly the same size; none of them are bigger or smaller than others. And... that's absurd. @TadCurious How many girls have you had sex with? You're saying you've really never noticed a difference between girls? Because I sure have, and it had nothing to do with how turned on they are. While it is true that the more horny a girl is, her canal will expand a bit, and when she's less turned on, it slightly contracts, that is not information that invalidates the *fact* that all girls are different down there in subtle ways, just like all guys are different down there in subtle ways. And some of them are tighter and some of them are looser. I do not understand the controversy here, at all.

[coralee]

@Anon-ymous1 I love how you keep balking at scientifically supported data. This has been recorder in peer reviewed journals. The vagina expands to accommodate what is entering it. Be that a finger, a toy or a penis. It contracts and expands, contracts and expands. If you feel like you are not getting enough friction that is probably due to an abundance of lubrication not her being loose. All women are capable of reaching that loose state. There is far less variation in vaginal size then there is in penis size. Less then 1/2 an inch and again that is assuming she has expanded to her fully aroused state that doesn't always happen. This isn't opinion this is scientifically backed up data.

[Anon-ymous1]

@coralee What I am saying is not an opinion either. No one is balking at scientific data. You literally just saw me acknowledge that vaginas both expand and contract, which is something that basically everyone everywhere knows already. Again, you don't have a dick, and will never have sex with a girl. I don't understand what's hard about this for you. You don't know what you're talking about.

[ReasonCalm]

Definitely don't go to the doctor and get surgery or pills! Everyone is made different and maybe you do have a larger vagina but there's a black man waiting for you somewhere haha jokes about that. When you say you can fit 4 fingers is that before arousal or after? Someone already mentioned kegals...

[coralee]

The idea that a woman can be too loose is a myth. And one that needs to die a slow painful death. Your vagina is incredibly elastic. It can expand double it's size when aroused which is why you can insert four fingers easily. When you aren't aroused it goes right back to normal. The only thing big enough to cause a vagina to loose it's elasticity is a baby and even then in time it does in fact go back to the way it was.

[olderbudweiser]

Well said and i totally agree

[BellePepper]

If it falls out you should go see a doctor. Otherwise it’s just as it’s meant to be

[Ankitasingh466]

Yes that's too much , 4 fingers omg. I can insert 2 at a time.

[0112358]

How do you have sex if you can't get two fingers in?

[isbey]

You're not

[Finchie40]

You'e just sleeping with small guys you need a guy that is at least 6 or 7 inches anything smaller then that tell him no lol

[capturemyheartnow]

The best way to know if your pussy is tight or not is to insert a rubber dick toy of 4 inch circumference and see if your pussy tightens around this object. If the dick comes out without effort , then your pussy is loose. Most probably , your pussy will still be tight.

[genericname85]

your vagina isn't a dead hole xD there are muscles. if you want to be tight, squeeze down.

[swillotter]

If you're concerned about being too loose you can try doing. some kegel excercises that will give you more muscle control down there and give you the ability to squeeze your pussy walls around his cock

[dpmsFan]

If a light breeze makes you sound like a tent on the North face of Mt. Everest in a snow storm... Too loose.

[Defboy69]

Have your boyfriend insert both hands and try to clap. If he can't then you're not too loose. Are you familiar with kegel exercise? If not, Google it.

[Arumin_Ian]

More than 2 is too much.. but worry not there's solution...

1) don't do penetrative masturbation.

2) improve your muscle inside vag. Yes it can be done. It's called kegeling or something... google it

[Anon-ymous1]

I mean you're right, we're not going to tell you one way or the other. But even if you are a bit too loose-- and you may not be, you may be perfectly fine-- there are other options you have to please him.

[olderbudweiser]

Experiences?

[LuciM]

Everything is relative: for a small penis you might be to loose but not for a big size one. Maybe you never met a big size one? you can specifically target bigger sizes

[NeallyNeal]

If you can insert more than 2 fingers AND your tampons fall out regularly... then you may want to consult a doctor or do kegels. If they don't fall out... then no worries.

[Phoenix941]

Learn to do kegel exercises

[TonyRyanAgain]

You're fine. Don't be insecure about it. If you really are worried, do kegals regularly.

[Stewart997]

It doesn't matter. It's not too loose

[DontHaveIdea]

Maybe you masturbate too much

[GasparNoe]

How many fingers can you fit?

[GasparNoe]

Fuck read that too late. No it's not

[chasedaking91]

Men never tell because men dont care.

[Anon-ymous1]

Ehh... dunno about that

[chasedaking91]

Well i definitely dont care.

[Anon-ymous1]

If you say so.

[Winners]

You are fine I’m sure it will be a perfect fit

[innerthighlicker]

Mmmmm not at all how big are the guys maybe they are small