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How do I know if my shy virgin boyfriend is ready for sex? how do I make him more comfortable with the idea of it?

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aside from holding his hand and an ocasional kiss he freezes up when i touch him. so i think no he isn't ready. but he told me that he has thought about having sex with me so i am confused. i dont want his first time to uncomfortable. i want him to enjoy it. and though the start with a bj advice is good, he has never had a bj from a female before so even that may make him uncomfortable.
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  • I wish more guys was standoffish towards sex, that way men in general wouldn't have a bad reputation in society.

    We men are use to women giving us the cold shoulder or a challenge to see if we're even good enough to be in her life.

    Me personally if a woman thought I had to earn her, I would just move on, (I do believe first impressions are important) but it should also go both ways like if a woman wants date a guy, he should not make himself being too easy, knowing after all his last relationship didn't go well.

  • We call it seduction. Are you dressing sexy, making out, wearing his favorite perfume and your CCM-CFMs, lots of laughing and eye contact, touching him a lot, getting him comfortable with touching you?

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  • How about starting with oral sex and mutual masturbation and have sex once he has become comfortable with the other stuff?

  • hmmm just start with a handjob that will ease him up then move up to him playing with your boobs or sucking them. after he seems into it you can blow him and slowly build up to penetration like that. good luck!

  • eww sex is gross. a fellow virgin would never betray our code. "VIRGINS FOR LIFE, WOMEN ASIDE, WE HAVE EACH OTHER, AND THAT WAY WE'LL DIE!"

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