How do I know that I’ve reach an orgasm/ finished?

[Anonymous]

This is a very weird question and I know each female experiences it differently so it varies from person to person. How DO I know that I have reached/finished an orgasm? I get a VERY sensitive clit during foreplay, to the point where it feels nice but the feeling is unbearable and I always make him stop.. should he carry on/would it feel even better in the end? I have no issues with getting wet as well. I get wet very easily. I don’t know where I am trying to get with this question. It has just always been on my mind and there isn’t anyone I can really ask? I am a 21 year old female. Thank you!

[DaveJord]

Well this a not a stupid question actually. I am 45 dating a 46 year old and she is very sensitive as well, and has no issues getting wet and is very active in bed. But I have been with a lot of women and yes orgasm vary drastically from women to women... but for the most part you kind of have a good idea between the ones that are faking and the ones that are really having them. Some go from squirting to leg trembling to full body convulsions. Some are like OMG from first second of penetration and others never make a peep.

So I asked my girl friend do you think you ever really and truly had full out orgasm? She said sure I have, why would ask that?

I told her honestly I do not think you have, because it seems like I get you right on the verge, but you pull back a little. She was like what do you mean, I told straight up you have to feel comfortable enough with me let it happen. I think when you start getting close you tense up, I can feel you stiffen up, but its not the orgasm, it feels like your actually trying to hold it back. She also claimed that she never masturbated so she does not really know what one would feel if she did it herself.

Well I finally got her to relax, and sure enough she is leg trembling type, laid there for 5 minutes after quaking with leg spasms. 46 years old and she finally had her first orgasm with a man.. look of amazement in her eyes when she was like "Oh this is what you meant."

[ohshee]

Believe me when you have an orgasm you're going to know it when you have two orgasms you're going to definitely do it because your pussies going to pulsate and when it pulsates going to be coming each time it pulsates and you won't be able to stop it's going to be so intense your whole body is going to be lit up and when this happens to you and if the guy at the same time you both some kind of fall over to the side close your eyes for a minute and next thing you know 30 minutes has gone by you feel something touching your back and you tried to open your eyes and you're fighting it fighting it and I will send you sit straight up open your eyes and you look around and you think while I just had the best sex ever and then you realize it was the bed that was touching your back you were having a out of body experience that is unreal beautiful there are ways for you to understand this better but I would need to know what else you want to know

[pixie215]

its different for everyone, but haven't you ever masturbated and had one? its immense pleasure, some people tense up some people dont, you can feel vaginal contractions, . you can feel the build to get there, then an epic release of tension just everything a wave of relaxation washes over you. sounds like you were close but didn't quite get there.

some reading may help as well as self exploration
How can you tell if you’ve had an orgasm? (plannedparenthood. org)

[Boromir]

What they say in general is that when you’re not sure if you had an orgasm you didn’t have one. Men have the added advantage of seeing semen an orgasm but I’m told that for women it’s also the same, you need to go over the top of the hill. You’re still on this side for the moment.

[boggboss]

Tend to feel a climaxe 9f overwhelming pleasure

[Dargil]

You should feel rhythmic contractions throughout your vagina and anal area.
You may or may not expel fluid (s). Obviously I have no direct female experience but it can be viewed in AV clips.

[Fireguy17]

I'm thinking you have been getting close but not quite.
When you have an orgasm, esp a good one, your eyes will roll backwards, your hands will be grabbing at air, yr toes will curl, you will discover god, as in oh god oh god, you may even get sweaty.
Others mybe just a really nice feeling going through you body and your stress level will probably be lower.
Practice on yourself.
Get a vibrator, and have at it.

[RealMarek]

You’ll know it if you have one. As for the sensitivity, if it is unbearable have him keep rubbing more gently or near but not directly on your clit, or switch to fingering. It will be worth it to find ways to keep going.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've heard quite a few women say that it actually gets a bit painful after a short while of clit play.
I'm not AT ALL into bondage but, I wonder what it'd feel like to her if she couldn't make someone stop playing with her clit and they went to the limit and beyond?
From my experience with my ex-fiance, so far, the only girl I've had oral sex with, her thighs vibrate uncontrollably when she cums.

[Wise4myage]

You will feel an explosion like you've never felt before.

[jasco]

Usually you can feel it. Your body will for sure tell you even if its not a powerful one

[IsoUser]

I could say the same thing about you when you stop in the middle of my orgasm an never finished ending my cum twice inside her mouth

[In_Trance]

You know... you just know

[driven159]

Don't stop for one thing play it out to the end and see what happens not all orgasms are earthquakes some are very small

[jackinoff]

Pretty sure you'll know when it happens. Orgasms are different for everyone and can also vary depending on the situation.

[Anonymous]

A clitoral orgasm is shorter, sharper and more localized to the genitals. Like a sneeze.
Your genital area will pulsate

A vaginal orgasm is softer, longer, and more full body. Like a shiver.