How do I look sexy during sex?

okay okay okay so I know this is kinda dumb but seriously! I make the most awkward faces, say the most awkward things, and make the most inhuman sounds during the act and I just want to be sexy for my man when we finally do it! I’m the type of gal who likes to have sex in complete darkness just as God intended but since we will be on vacation when we finally do it I’m sure we may try for some day time fun and it’s giving me lots of anxiety
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  • 1) genesis 2:25 And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

    Key principle to GREAT sex: naked but not ashamed.

    Yes, in the light, and naked and not ashamed, aka be sexually confident. This is the #1 turn on for man.

    2) your naked body is by default sexy to him. Hence add the naked mind, heart and soul.

    Song of Solomon 4:5 Thy two breasts are like two young roes that are twins, which feed among the lilies.
    6 Until the day break, and the shadows flee away, I will get me to the

    Yes, show off your breasts, "mountain of myrrh" (your anus hidden within the butt cheeks), and the "hill of frankincense" (vagina on the slope down the groin) to him.

    This is very sexy because it was written in the greatest love (making) song of mankind.

    3) let him do oral sex on you so that you become wet and ready for penetration. It's very sexy to guys to see your wet and then cum.

    Song of Solomon 4:13 Thy plants are an orchard of pomegranates, with pleasant fruits; camphire, with spikenard,
    14 Spikenard and saffron; calamus and cinnamon, with all trees of frankincense; myrrh and aloes, with all the chief spices.

    Yes, men get intoxicated with female juice and smell.

    The rest other guys had written and hence I not repeat.

    To conclude, keep the lights on and your clothes off. Take a bath together to reduce awkwardness. He'll see it all, eventually. Hence just pose and show off from the beginning. That's what being sexy means to guys, saith the Bible.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I won't have sex with a woman if I can't see the goods. What if he proposed to you but did it in the dark? Not to mention you never got to see this beautiful diamond ring he gave because the only time you got to wear it was in the dark but he assures you that there's nothing wrong with it, he's just not comfortable with you seeing it so you can admire this beautiful ring that meant so much to you. If we thought you we're attractive enough to get with then the only way you can turn us off is by hiding the goods. Confidence is sexy af! If weI mean in teen age we all experience extreme desire for sex when we are virgin and after having sex those feelings might change upward or downward. I want to know about you how ur feelings changed when u were virgin and when u finally had sex. @@ th fantasize about another woman we've seen naked then we count788%tutu re we 1

Most Helpful Girls

  • Usually the natural reactions are the hottest! I'm sure your faces aren't awkward, and that your man is very pleased! If you want to do some sexy things though to distract him from your face a bit (I get nervous about my face as well sometimes), I recommend clawing his back, put your hands in his hair, fiercely kiss him, etc. Little things like that can help if you feel awkward at all. Regardless, I'm sure you look just fine and that you'll get more comfortable as time goes on :)

  • Don't fret on it. We all get that way. If you're concentrating on your face, then you're not concentrating on having sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Flip and play with your hair in a teasing motion. Maybe wear a sexy lingerie top part of the time then strip it off. Close your eyes and tilt your head back. Moan and talk dirty.

  • No guy cares

  • "I make the most awkward faces, say the most awkward things, and make the most inhuman sounds during the act"

    That's exactly what we find sexy. Uncontrollable, genuine reactions.

  • God didn't intend you to have sex only in the dark. Second the weird expressions during sex are hot as fuck. Definitely a turn on for both parties. Just be yourself and joy it. Focus onbthe pleasure.

  • Honestly, the sexiest thing you can do is relax and focus on having fun.

  • mmmm... women are already sexy... unless he is gay. being happy is the BEST sexy

  • From a man's point of view a woman is always sexy! Dont let that dictate your love life. My wife used to be shy and one day we had an open discussion. I found out that she wanted to watch me with another man. Today we do cashews together and make money while enjoying sex haha. Point is communication..

  • Just stay casual

  • Just relax and have fun!

  • Women are beautiful when they are excited

  • I'm sure he doesn't think you look weird or make weird noises
    Focus on enjoying yourself

  • Talk with your man and make sure he builds you up a lot
    Also maybe try to get some sexy lingerie

  • Wear sexy dresses 😝😂😋😉

  • Don't worry. God didn't intend for married couples to only have sex in the darkness. In the daylight is also fine. What I would find sexy, is for her to openly admit that she's a bit nervous, but also very excited, and that she responds in a natural honest way