How do I make him my Fuck Buddy?

I know for a fact this guy thinks I'm super hot. I want to make him my fuck buddy. Is there anyway a guy would turn this offer down? How do I go about asking? Am I not suppose to ask? Is it a turn off to ask?
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he's a friend of a friend and we've been on a date before I just don't want anything serious
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Stop worrying about it, any guy is as lustful as you are, and I, as a boy, know about it. But then you will start doubting how to ask him about it. Just ask him when he is alone at home for at least 3 hours ( or perhaps call him to your place). When you meet secretly, make sure you close all the windows and doors to ensure privacy.
    Now comes the climax. Don't try to ask him about it, rather, start doing it to him. Do watch some p*rn videos so that you know how to start it. Touch his dick from the outside of his pant while kissing him. He will obviously know what you are trying to do. But, at first, he will be surprised about it. He will, to say, 'get dumbstruck' about it. But, promise him it would just be within you and him and nobody else. Then do all of it that you see in the p*rn v's to seduce him. He won't say no to you. Then start doing it more frequently so that both of you get into it. But, remember, the guy you want to fuck should be in a deep relationship with you first, or he will start thinking you to be a slut. But I assure you, he would be waiting for such a time.
    Hope this helps you in your sexual life!

  • Take him out for an intmate drink. Tell him that your find him attractive and that you'd like to have NSA sex with him.

    The other approach, which I consider more fun, is just to go so far in attracting him with your clothes or lack thereof and flirting that he makes a move. You can accept with qualification: NSA.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol what is with all the flirting and baiting him advice. The whole Beaty of casual sex is you don't have to jump through hoops be subtle and play all these bullshit games. You're not applying for a job or a marriage license you're just after NSA sex. Just tell him he's hot and you want NSA sex.

    He's interested or he isn't. If he's single and not looking for a relationship he'll probably be interested. But some people don't do casual sex. No amount of flirting changes that so if just get to the point. Good luck.

  • Just go up to him and say "Hey, I find you really attractive but I don't want anything serious at the moment, so would you mind being friends who sleep with each other?"

  • LOL WTF... I wish I could be as free as you, my brain just doesn't work that way...

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  • waaaaaaaaaat? just ask the guy. NO ONE is going to reject you. PROMISE!

  • You should really ask him straight forward. If he thinks that you are super hot then there are 90% chances of being layed. Nothing will go worse.

  • Haha, when I read this at first, I thought it said "how do I make this guy fuck my buddy?" This makes much more sense.
    And just ask him. You got nothin to lose

  • "fuck buddy"? well maybe he still has some common decency and doesn't sleep around? If the guy sleeps around it isn't a turn off to ask, but if he isn't interested in girls who just want a "fuck buddy" then of course it is a turn off. but if you pretend like that isn't what you want when it really is then you are just deceiving him.

  • Um yuck. We are not pieces of meat you know. We have feelings and brains.

    • LOL you're funny

    • Not always

  • no its not a turnoff to ask. enjoy it its all good. be nonchalant about it

  • Just be straight up. Tell him you think he's hot but you don't want anything serious, that you want to keep things casual.

    I'd say you've got a 75% chance he'll say yes.

  • Take him to a casual chat over a drink. Tease him with your body language.. touch him and keep the touch an extra seconds longer, show a bit more of cleavage.. etc.. then tell him he is handsome and u would want him to do anything he wishes with you. Tell him thats with no strings attached... and tell him he turns u on very much. At this point any guy who wants u would react positively...

  • Have fun just dont see hom too often. Either him orb yourself will start to have feelings and that fucks everything up when the other statys dating other people. Keep it casual and do not hang out too often.

    I am in this current predicament.

    • is it you or her with feelings?

    • I developed them. didn't even know i had them until she started dating. We had started spending way too much time together. We would gym together, were on the same pool league together, and she works for my best friend. So if you stick to just the sex and goodby you should be fun. Is when you start doing bf gf stuff together when one or the other gets the feelings.

    • aww, I'm sorry, I hope it works out for you and if its not her something better will come along

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  • Sing him the bangity bang so good and his pants will be off in a flash

  • just ask him.

  • Be honest. Tell him you think he is hot but you don't want anything serious.

  • Just say, "Would you like to be my fuck buddy?" If the guy is interested, he'll say something positive.

  • Keep it casual. Either ask him to hang out and bait him into asking you to hang out. Take him back to your place and make a move on him (kiss him and grab his dick). There are very few guys who would turn that down.

  • No, just tell him.

  • How well do you know him? Meet him for a drink and see how it goes