How do I make my boyfriend cum quickly?

i usually start off with just touching him with my hands but then it turns into a blowjob.. I'm new to it and he told me I've gotten better at it recently but I've never gotten him to cum yet even for long periods of time :( @ guys what do you like? what makes you cum quickly? and for girls what works when you do it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Everyone's been talking about technique and such. Sex is very mental. You need to hit his mental hot buttons. Be smiling, happy, positive, encouraging, eager, excited and extremely enthusiastic. Talk dirty to him. Beg him for a big load of delicious thick salty cum. Tell him that you want him to cum into your mouth so that you can enjoy swallowing it. After I've been sucking, licking and stroking his cock for awhile I hand it over to him to stroke, put my head back and open my mouth wide. He strokes his cock and cums into my wide open mouth. After he finishes cumming I swallow the cum, then I suck and lick his cock squeaky clean. I tell him his cum was delicious and that I enjoyed swallowing it, then I thank him. Always think about the mental effects of everything you say. Not just on him, but on yourself as well. The "dirtier" and more positive and enthusiastic your words are, the more you'll enjoy yourself and the more you enjoy it, the more he'll enjoy it too.

  • I usually turn him on a lot before I touch his wiener, I kiss him passionately, I caress him a lot, then I kiss his neck and I keep kissing his body while I'm going down and with one hand I touch his penis (which is always so hard at that point). Then I lick the shaft from the balls to the tip and I take it all in my mouth. With one hand I caress his balls, while with the other I stroke him while with my mouth and tongue I work the top of the penis and I alternate this with deep throat. He usually cums in a couple of minutes.

    • Thank you! This was helpful :)

  • simply having his cock in your mouth isn't enough, you need to use your tongue, u need to suck and nibble gently as a few different motions... just play with him with your mouth rather than have him in your mouth...

    • well using my tongue is kind of a no brainer here ;/

    • Teeth? Hands? Sucking? Learn to deep throat?

  • Umm there's something wrong with your boyfriend. Guys cum too quick!!! first time this question has ever been asked. Usually the question is how can the guy last long longer!!!

    • I cum when I want to

    • @you_asked yeah right haha.

    • all my muscles have to be flexed before I can cum... if I'm not ready to cum I don't flex them I am guilty of causing extremely long blowjobs lol

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Most Helpful Guys

  • So how many times has HE gone down on YOU?

    Making someone come is a two-way street. At least it better be. Equality in the bedroom is what it's all about.

    Make sure you're getting yours. Bonus: He'll feel a lot more like cumming when he's had a face full of pussy. If he's reluctant, then rest assured that there's no shortage of dudes who will do the duty. Good luck. :)

    • Thank you for your answer :)

  • I don't know about cumming quickly but here's a link to some great blow job tips:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

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  • You have to make him think that you want him so bad!!

  • The most effective routine is not a straight blowjob. It is hand and oral. The cap of his penis, particularly the flared collar at it's base, needs the action of puckered lips just like the snug insides of your vagina. But the shaft below needs the pressure and motion of a stroking hand, which is why hand and oral will make him cum faster than either intercourse or a hand job. Fuck the cap with a kissing mouth and stroke him as fast as you can with a light grip.

  • Have me as your boyfriend, I can cum in under a minute

    • 😂😂😂

    • Hahaha thanks for making me laugh :')

  • If you can deep throat. But why not try playing with his ass and maybe stick a finger in while giving head. Don't 69 as this distracts and increases time to cum

    • oh gosh I don't think either of us are into that..

    • Try it. It won't kill you and you may like it. It needs to be done slowly and gently. Same goes for women. Although a lot of women don't like anal sex they enjoy anal play

  • let him become a porn addict. that always work as it is supposedly the main cause of ED today

  • Fast rigerous up and down motions trade off hands and mouth. Also play with the balls. You can put some presure on the erea right behind balls at the begining of the pernium while you have him in your mouth. Remember most nerve endings are in the glans.

  • Stick you finger up his ass and massage his prostate

  • tell him to stop masturbating so much

  • If you massage his crack, from the back to the sack, that would stimulate him a lot... some would even appreciate if you slightly put your finger in his anus. .. that things make him tu cum really fast

  • Suck him hard

  • Think of me as i am your boyfriend, i will teach you how to do :)

  • I don't cum from bjs easily, even from vets. It will def take longer than sex either way though. I would say 25 min+

  • Hey, there are already some decent answers here about some extra things that might please him, but just in terms of basic technique not much has been said yet. What are you doing at the moment?

    Are you stroking the base of his cock at the same time as you take the head and upper portion in your mouth, and tucking your lips around your teeth so that your mouth can glide more softly? Both of these things, along with swirling your tongue, can both really help. And when he's almost there, it's really important to keep doing whatever you are doing constantly, and continue through until he cums.

  • You can't make him cum quickly if you don't turn him on.

    • lmao if he wasn't turned on in the first place he wouldn't be hard would he

  • Find the frenulem and put a lot of tongue pressure on it while you bob up and down and use one of your hands to stroke him at the same time... throw in a lot of eye contact and you will be floatin' in cum in no time

  • Get him really horny before you have sex/ bj/ hj etc.. the hornier he is, the quicker he'll go, we're the same as women, the hornier we are, the faster