I find it's really easy to do it if you both are sitting down and she sits with her back to your chest between your legs. Then she can lean back on you and you can support her and then reach her pussy from t here.
Fingering you can't just go ahead and do unless you know she's wet and turned on already. It's just that your fingers are probably dry and will feel abrasive. But what you do is start to touch her everywhere else but her pussy. Caress her neck and shoulders, rub just the underside of her breasts and then continue up slowly to her nipples and tease them, around the areola with circles and then lightly squeezing the nipples and continue if she likes it. Then slide your hands slowly down her body down across her stomach for bit, and then down to her inner hips and thighs (not the pussy yet), and then back up across her inner thighs again. All this is to get her relaxed and her juices flowing so that she is getting more moist and wet down there.
Next, you can just rub, just the top of her pubic area, making her wanting more and anticipating what's coming next. Hopefully she's trying to reach your hands with her pussy, which means she wants you to really touch her there. So then you go over her outer lips, just massage them and squeeze the whole pussy with your hand (not too hard mind you). Keep doing this and then slowly start to just squeeze more around where the clit is (the top half of the pussy slit). This will tease and make her clit harder and throb hopefully.
Now you can go and see how wet she is by gently sliding a finger along the inner lips and just along the opening hole of her vagina. It should be moist and maybe grooling (look it up) a bit. You can use this moisture as lubricant for her clit. If she isn't that moist yet, use some of your saliva, get your finger wet and then slowly start to rub around the base of her clit with little sensual circles. Then you can follow from the upper part of the clit back to her body and then back to the upper part of her clit. The clit is longer than just that nubbin. You can actually stroke it with your fingers like a mini cock. So mix it up with stroking it like this and the mini circles around the base. Maybe you can touch it a bit directly on the tip, but most women are too sensitive for this and prefer just around it. But just PLAY! Try different things, and see what her reactions are, if she's moaning in a good way, continue that.
Also, if she likes one or two things, don't change those two things even if your fingers or hands are cramping up. Oh and you can try and finger when she's really shaking and breathing heavily from you teasing her clit area, because she's probably desiring something thrusting inside of her right about now, but not too fast or hard, just slow deep thrusting until she is nice and juicy. But then go back to teasing the clit. You keep doing these things and listening to what is increasing her moans and shallow breathing pattern, she'll cum for sure.
It is easy! Get naked and ask her to show you how she does it. It is ok to be coached a bit. Take it slow, don't go at it hard like they do in the porn movies. Ask her to give you feedback on what feels good and what does not. Let her tell you whether to go faster/slower or harder or softer. It is ok to talk and communicate when you get each other off. Has she given yiu a handjob yet? You may want to show her how you do it so it is how you like it best. Your thoughts?
Yeah she’s given me one, but she never asks me to do something or to adjust unless she’s really not into it otherwise she’ll bite her tongue. Stressful as hell.
You are overthinking it when it comes to angle and things. Make sure you are both comfortable and relaxed.
Personally rather than relying on porn I suggest reading up on different techniques as it isn't the same for every girl.
A suggestion that might help use your thumb to rub on the clit and insert two fingers and essentially try bending them and straightening.
However don't forget build up can be important.
Feel free to also share how it ended poorly enough to make you throw it out
You need to rub her clit, it's our most sensitive part.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Whelp, ik what does work if fingers fail. I don't know if your into this kind of thing, but the mass majority of girls love to be eaten out. Give that a try
She'll tell what and how she likes it.
Have her sit to the right of you. Fingers pointing downwards and rub side to side or if circular motion.
A video would answer your question better than words.
Watch some porn, than you will get the idea
Lay next to her I am right handed so roll over and use my right hand use two fingers and rub her clit. Or have her take your hand and start playing with her clit with your fingers that way u know what she likes
Check some porn videos... they show how u do it
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