How do I overcome the insecurity of my ugly vagina?

My biggest worry is that next guy I start to date will see it as a turn off. And it's not like small boobs or bad teeth, that if someone is turned off by it, they won't even bother dating them. But something like this you only find out when you get intimate with a girl, and I don't do that unless I really like the guy, so if he got repulsed after that it would really sting. how do stop worrying about this? when I do it for the first time with a new guy again I don't want to worry about anything and just enjoy the experience completely. is there any way to find out if a guy is into that before? should I talk to the guy before we get intimate?

I know most of you will say that if a guy rejects me for that he is not worth it, or that all vaginas are beautiful and I should accept it and love it as it is. I do actually, I've accepted it, but I also see that it can look like a scary beast from certain angles. I've only had sex with one guy before, he never commented on in neither positively or negatively. One time we had hooked up few months after we broke up, he was hesitant to give me oral but I suspect that had more to do with the fact that I was completely unshaven than anything else.
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  • I've never seen an ugly vagina. I've seen thousands in photos.
    I've never heard a guy say he cares about the vagina shape.

    • I concur

  • i don't think there is such a thing as a ugly vagina

    • anonymous you should not be insecur of your vagina