How do I politely say I don’t want that?

[Anonymous]

So I was having sex with this girl. And she was trying to grab my ass and do things to me there. I felt really uncomfortable so I tried to ignore it and moved onto having regular sex. Like honestly, I think only gay guys like being touched in the butt. I just was grossed out and traumatized🤮. She also sucked on my nipples. I was weirded out too. Like I’m pretty sure she only has sex with freaks🤢. I’m going to seeing her often, so I’m pretty sure she’s going to try it again.…

[AyaMya]

Not only gay guys enjoy butt stuff. There are plenty of straight guys that would enjoy it if it wasn't so socially stigmatised.

It's not gay unless you're sexually attracted to another male. Men have a prostate that's a highly sensitive erogenous zone that produces semen. Prostate orgasms are possible via external stimulation on the taint but to directly stimulate it, the best method is anally.

It's absolutely fine to not enjoy prostate stimulation, but to deem it gay is ridiculous considering nothing is gay between a man and a woman.

Men like to perform anal on women yet women don't have a g-spot up their ass. Hoe is that any different? Don't be silly

[AyaMya]

Just to clarify again. If you're not into it, you're not into it and that's absolutely fine. You must tell her where your boundaries are, but this has absolutely nothing to do with homosexuality.

[MissStrawberry912]

It’s more than okay to address that you have fun with her but you’re not a butt/nipple guy when a girl is touching you. Tell her what turns you on instead. If she refused and still wanna go to those are, then you guys aren’t fully sexually compatible

[Cheerfull009]

She is naughty girl, having fun with you, once I was fucking a girl in missionary position, she inserted finger in my ass, I felt pain, so stopped her to do this, later when she was in Doggie position, I inserted my dick in her ass, she cried, but I held her tight, and had fucked till I ejaculated in her ass

[richardcory]

You have to tell her what yo do and don't like. What she is doing is not very unusual, some men enjoy it, some don't. No way for her to know unless you tell her.

If you find you like very different things in bed, that might be a major incompatibility. Neither of you is wrong, just different

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't like what she did, you didn't tell her that you're not into butt play, and you're going to see her again. Frequently. Am I missin anything?

[Tyrael]

If you can't talk to her about sex, then you shouldn't be having sex with her. Man up and just explain you're not into that.

[ushagomez]

Just tell her nicely that you aren’t into having her do that and tell her something that you really like if she is ok with that instead.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Stop going with her, because once someone demonstrates they have a perverted mind, they can not be cured.

[Gent207-2]

Get over your bigotry

Take the tampon out of your mouth and tell her what you like and what you don't. If she respects you she'll stop and if she doesn't stop... well there is your answer

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Butt stuff is off limits for me too.

[Asker]

I cringe just thinking about it

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Different strokes for different folks, but yeah, that's not for me

[Sparkie460]

Tell her it makes you uncomfortable when she does those things. Give her things that you like having done

[Anonymous]

I don’t think you two are compatible sexually and that’s never a good start to a relationship.

[Asker]

We’re just friends with benefits. And we had a great time. I even moved the whole table across the room from fucking her lol

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok as long as it’s nothing serious, you just got to be honest that it turns you off.