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How do I pop her cherry without hurting her?

my girlfriend is a virgin and im too scared to sleep with her because of this
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  • Taking from my first time experience,
    Make sure the first time you two have sex, its on her terms.
    Build up to it. If you haven't yet I suggest quite a few "sessions" of just oral and fingering. Giving oral before sex for the first time is not a bad idea. It will relax her, arouse her and increase the lubricant.
    Do not under estimate foreplay. For her first time especially, you want her to as lubricated as possible.
    Go slow. Don't just jam yourself in there. Inch in little by little, slow and rhythmic.
    But if she is in too much pain, as much as you probably won't want to, STOP.
    She will likely bleed. She will likely experience pain. She will probably not orgasm.

    • i honestly dont even wanna do it if its like that. we are both virgins and she is 5'1 and im 5'8 so she's tiny compared to me. now I've never seen her thing but i doubt its gonna be big enough for me to slide in pain free. so would foreplay be enough?

    • I'll tell you what. Im 5ft 4, my boyfriend who I lost my virginity to is 6ft 6. So he is over a foot taller than me. His "package" is fairly sizable. But we made it work. I still expereience some pain, but I also have endometriosis. Fact of the matter is, girls rarely have a great experience during their first time. For now, start small. My boyfriend and I stuck with just oral and fingering for months before moving into full sex. But if you're that worried, go buy some lube. Just plain lube. Nothing warming or "sensitivity heightening ".

    • okay thanks

  • For girls, first time usually hurts. I have never met a girl who said that her first time didn't hurt. It'll take time to get used to. However, to reduce as much pain as possible, make sure she's relaxed. Foreplay as much as you can, and use lube if she isn't wet enough. The vagina loosens when the girl is relaxed and turned on.

    Also, don't jam your dick in, take it slow first, then speed up little by little. If you jam it in her and go fast, you're going to end up hurting her a lot more.

  • It's gonna hurt no matter what, you are breaking her hymen (cherry), it's like tearing a piece of skin off your body. Go slow and stop if she says stop, there may be blood involved so don't freak out. Good luck and kudos to you for being the ONE 😉

Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh... well, first of... try to relax. Tension always makes things worst, trust me.
    Well... it was a general advice but you ask how can i relax... well simple, just dont rush, take it slowly, yes it will hurt her and ITS NORMAL, but if you love her and dont rush and talk to her, its gonna be allright, she also must relax to hurt less. Go for it now man :) just remember you love her, and you care for her and its gonna be allright!

  • Pop goes the weasel
    If you sing along it won't hurt cause she'll think you're so strange and not even focus on her ouchy
    😛

    • u killed me lmao

    • Hahahhahaha

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  • Foreplay so she is wet and into it. Go very slowly and use lots of lube. Better yet, let her control the movements. That is an old wives tell about breaking a piece of her flesh, look it up.

  • Make sure she is wetter then an otter's pocket. So lots of foreplay it's not that easy Becaues she is still new to her and nervous.

  • It's going to hurt a bit anyways. Just take it slow.

  • You can't. It's gonna hurt no matter what.

  • It only hurts a little bit some blood is going to come down your cock but after that it well feel better

  • Sadly I've never popped a cherry but I've heard of it being done because my friends were borrowing my room because they didn't want to get caught we were kids teenagers and it satellite owl for a while and then oh yeah keep going into it harder

  • Lotsa foreplay and lubrication maybe?

  • You'll hurt her either way. The important thing is that you don't hurt her some much she's put off sex forever.

  • Give her a sundae with a cherry on top

  • Go down on her first. Make her REALLY wet, go in REALLY slow. Believe it or not, you might not puncture her hyman (pop her cherry) and many women don't ever have their hyman punctured. Just make her really wet and be careful. Maybe use lube too

  • Slide your benis inside

  • Very gently

  • Hire an Asian to bang her. 🤣 Haha no thats messed up but seriously it'll hurt regardless unless she's like one of those chicks that can give natural birth without breakin a sweat. Just be gentle and slow and make sure she's ok as you do it. It may even hurt the first few times but it'll pass then you can really bang her

  • You eat it out first then u slip it in slow

  • Go slow with her. Take your time, work up to the speed she is comfortable with. If she says it hurts slow down or even stop if necessary. Just go slow.

  • Go slow, make sure she's really really wet... Better yet wait til marriage!

  • Go slow, make sure she is really turned on, don't skip out on foreplay, listen to her, go at her pace. Hopefully it won't hurt but if it does be there for her, make sure she knows you love her no matter what.

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