How do I prove to him that I love him?

And don’t say suck dick!
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Whenever I have a crush on a guy, they automatically take it into account that I'm involve with them. By my actions. but I'm literally just being myself. So I asked the question, to see what guys consider to be a girl falling involve, so I can STOP doing that and being seen as crazy within the first week lmao
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  • Well, that would be a place to start... but we digress.
    So, since you asked, here's how you keep a man, you give him all he could need or want of these three things:
    1. Sex
    2. Food
    3. Love/attention/respect - the emotional connection.

    This is how you keep a man loyal and in love with you for all eternity. They're really very basic, they're focused on their life mission, their goals, attaining success. So this is how you support that.
    About two -thirds of women get this, the rest either don't believe it, can't be bothered, or simply refuse. And then they wonder why he wanders off looking for a woman that WILL give them.
    And that my dear, is it all in a nutshell.
    If you love your man make sure he knows it, otherwise he'll think that YOU are more important to you than HIM. And if he's not, then cut him loose and find one that IS.

  • You shouldn’t feel that you have to prove your love. If he’s not attracted to you, there’s nothing you can do, and if he is, you don’t have to do anything.

    • Complete and utter bullshit. EVERYBODY has to prove their love, EVERY day. If you don't they wander off. Hard to believe a 47yo could be so clueless.

    • @Browneye57 Maybe I misunderstood the question. Your reply is true for people IN A RELATIONSHIP. After 13 happy years with my partner, I don't worry about how to "prove my love". I just enjoy doing the little things that make her happy, like putting fresh flowers on the table when she is coming back from a trip. The asker wrote "Whenever I have a crush on a guy..." so I thought she was asking about attracting a man's attention.

    • Perhaps I did as well. She doesn't want to appear 'crazy'. Well, too many tend to hide their true feelings, or feign the 'hard to get thing', which tends to lead a guy into thinking they lack interest. Lots of women lose out this way. When I had a new fling, there was NEVER any doubt about my interest. And yeah, been with wifey ver 2.0 for thirty years. We don't do the flowers thing anymore, "Oh, you brought me dead blooms again?" LOL She much prefers me to help with gardening. You just never know. :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • care for him, but let's be honest most men look for sexual interactions in relationships. I've heard this a lot from guys "I you don't f*ck, is it a relationship at all?"

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  • Wait, why did we rule out sucking his dick?

  • Is there ANY background story to this question?

    • Nope, just wanna know what guys consider a girl falling in love with them. I’ve had SEVERAL guys say they thought I was in love with them when I wasn’t

    • Obviously, if a girl says that she loves me, then there is a very strong possibility that she really does love me. Aside from her words. . . When I feel that a girl is in love with me, she wants to be with me much of her free time. She wants to plan things together. She doesn't need to be entertained with dates; she is content with coming to my home and watching TV, preparing a meal together. When a girl is in love with me, she wants me to meet her friends and family. She wants her co-workers to meet me. She wants to go to sleep in my bed every night regardless of whether its for bump-bump or just sleeping. She initiates holding my hand when we are in public. Is that what you were looking for?

  • You can express love in many ways, is he your boyfriend, do you live together? Give details to get good advice

  • It sounds to me like a trust issue he has. It should be enough for him that you say it. If he doesn't trust you then no matter what you do, he will still have the same issues.

  • By caring genuine concern and care for him, doing things which noone else could do for him.

  • By acting in a way thay shows how u feel towards him

  • Time. Show him with the test of time.

  • Look after him. Cook for him. Even do his laundry. Be useful.

  • I think the big thing is to find out what actions he sees as a display of affection. Like you know how there's that whole 5 love languages thing? Words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts?
    Find out which is how how normally displays his affection and then find a way to mirror that back. People tend to give love in the same way they want to receive love

  • Tell him and show him that you respect him!

  • 1. If you trying to get into relationship with him, just express your feeling for him.

    2. In relationship and need to prove? Just don't do it, one don't need to prove.
    And if you try to prove once, you will always be lead on that side if anything happens between two.

  • Give him a hug and kiss 😘

    • You want to show love or not?

    • if they think im involve with them they leave quicker

    • Oh that's a stupid way to out it. I know I wouldn't leave

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  • Cuddle... thats it

  • Just show him that you care about him

  • Look deep into his eyes, tell him you love him and kiss him passionately. If you cook, make him a meal as an act of loving service. Hold and cuddle eachother. If you are physically intimate show him that you want him with words or actions.

  • Stay close to him

  • Spread your legs!

    • Your profile picture is fitting

  • What do you normally do?

    • Always be available to talk to him. Get him random gifts. Smile. Always pay attention to him. My eyes are really big so if I like you, I guess my eyes sparkle. I ask them a lot of questions. I take cute selfies just for them... etc

    • I'd love to have a girl like you in my life.

    • What do you do when you like a girl?

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  • Well, through your actions i guess.

    Though if he is asking you to prove it then you can't because he is broken and nothing will ever be enough.

    • People want what they can't have, when you give yourself too freely you will be percieved to have low value.

    • They always end up saying im a sweet girl and that I can do better than they cut me off and they are low value, I mean- gang members, guys in prison, mentally ill... etc

    • I would take them at their word, they clearly recognise that they have made choices in their life which do not lend themselves to being good partners etc, it hurts them and they want you to have a better life than that. You should persue that better life.

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  • Action speak louder than words.