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How do I satisfy my exhibitionist fantasies while in a relationship?

I am in a really amazing, loving, trusting relationship right now. The thing is, I have always been kind of an exhibitionist (which he knows), and I sort of crave attention from strangers. I like being stared at; I like when men think I am sexy. My boyfriend admires me a lot, but it's not exactly the same kind of attention as just raw lust, you know? I don't want to ruin anything with him, but at the same time I want to flirt a little. Has anyone been in a similar position and can shed some advice?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He shouldn't feel threatened that other guys think you're hot. Why wouldn't he be glad that other guys think you're hot? Would he rather the opposite? No.
    Maybe you could introduce him to nudist / naturist recreation. Even though the codes of conduct for that means that there's no over sexual stuff, everybody does look at everybody else, so much so that the nudity becomes not a big deal really. Still, it might allow you to feel what you want to feel about exposing your body. Your boyfriend could be there and be assured everything was cool.

  • You could wear those see-through yoga pants or alike. Another option would be to ask him if a woman could watch you two have sex, it being a woman will make him much more likely to say yes, also you may want to spell out that it wouldn't be a threesome. Or you could just have an in depth conversation and find out what he is ok with you doing, for example their are some people that like to see their spouse sleep with another person.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Hi... been there done that. Im 23 and I started doing that since im 15 without knowing what I was doing. I have always got a thrill in exposing and knowing that someguy is eating me with eyes.

    I usually dont touch myself but still I do it when thigs go out of control. So if I get too horny sometimes I wear something hott and go for a walk in downtown ;) I know the stares I get and It thrills me. I have teased guys and girls in bus, train, movies, flight, school, college, work everywhee ,:)

    I love teasing women too this way ;)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I want to have sex with a woman on top of a skyscraper.

  • This doesn't sound like exhibitionism at all.

    More like a desire for a semi-open relationship?

  • How bout public sex.
    Also you can strip nude while at home alone with him. He may not mind. And he will not take his eyes off you.
    Ask if he wants to go skinny dipping, just the 2 of you, at firsta any way, then try times when others are around as well.

  • Do you two live alone? If so, try walking around the house partially or completely naked.

  • I always though being a exhibitionist meant that you like being sexual in public where people can see you.

  • ahm.. ahm.. so do you need some advice? xD

  • Stop being a fucking asshole and put your nasty ways aside? You're in a relationship are you not? Self control. Self control. SELF CONTROL.

  • I've been in a position like that once. left her immediately

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