How do I seduce my guy friend?

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How can I ask him to have sex?

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Kiss him gently on the lips, softly stroke his thigh, and tell him "You make me so wet" Unless he's gay, he'll get the idea.

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

Aww. Don't do that, Kate.

Sangita93 · Answer

Seducing a man is like an insurmountable obstacle, especially if you are not familiar with good flirting and seduction techniques. Learning to be sexy and getting a man interested is usually not an overnight event, but a process that involves a lot of fun back and forth.

First thing First - Make Eye Contact With Him Frequently. Men are visual creature. One of the things that a man is most likely going to notice about you first is your eyes. Most guys like to gaze into a woman’s eyes as soon as they meet her, even before they check out her cleavage, or size up the rest of her figure. The eyes can communicate sexiness, mysteriousness and desire without a single word. While many men are attracted to provocative clothing as a whole, you can make more of an impact by dressing to flatter your figure as opposed to dressing just to show skin. Showing off all your best assets all at once can give the impression that you’re “slutty” instead of “playful.”

Guys love it when a woman smiles. A genuine smile catches a man’s attention and helps him to zero in on you and only you. Fake smiles do not count — most guys can spot those from a mile away. One way to get in his heart is to ask more personal questions and offer intimate information. If you want to take things up a gear, then you may try some of dirty (Lovely) questions. Your body language can show a man that you are interested in him more so than anything you say. Use your body language to your advantage when seducing him and let him know in no uncertain terms that you are into him. If he’s into you too, he may start to mirror your body language and gravitate towards you in the same way.

Throwing yourself at him and showing an inappropriate level of interest - obsessive instead of playful - can have the opposite effect of seducing him. When seducing a guy, make sure to touch him frequently in a subtle way, you could lay your hand on his knee briefly while he is talking. Make sure when you touch him, it seems accidental or slight. Next step will be getting him alone for few moments. Getting him alone not only gives you more freedom to flirt and seduce him, but will also help get him in the right frame of mind for anything you have planned next without being distracted.

Awkward silences and situations can be one of the most interesting — and effective — ways to stir up sexual tension with a guy. Do not be afraid to get awkward. Most guys like to chase a woman. However, they do not want the goal to feel impossible to reach. It is okay to make him work a bit for your time or affection when seducing a man to increase his anticipation, but do not make him bend over backwards for little in return.

Be positive for everything and anything happening. Along with showing him confidence instead of insecurity, you want to keep your conversation with him positive.

ushagomez · Answer

Invite him somewhere private where he is relaxed. Don’t ask, just take control and enjoy. He won’t complain…..

summiter · Answer

Kate... how well do you already know him? Is he single? Maybe ask him out on a date and see where it leads?

normalice · Answer

I'd have to know him but generally just inviting him somewhere alone and comfortable is enough.

20yearsolder · Answer

Do you think he's interested?; Be the aggressor. Show a little extra cleavage. Be touchy feely. Make comments about being turned on or horny.

Summeroflove · Answer

Just don’t. Ask him to marry you. If you wanna sleep with someone. Marry them.

Sixgunsound · Answer

Is there any reason you think he’s not dtf? Most guys will take what’s offered without a very good reason why not.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Just tell him

AsaKyo · Answer

You don't lmao

Reddy4it · Answer

Let him catch you…’accidentally’…naked

User3191989 · Answer

Why are you trying to seduce a guy "friend" But, all you'd need to do is basically wear nothing, and just start coming on to him

clampfan101 · Answer

Marry him?

In_Trance · Answer

don't ask; just do it

jimmy2 · Answer

Whisper in his ear

hydra_te · Answer

Just ask, a lot of guys would say yes, not because they’re attracted to you, but because of testosterone making them horny

Anonymous · Answer

Be direct and ask

Anonymous · Answer

Give him a Long Passionate Kiss and be sure look to look in his eyes and smile.

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