How do I sneak sex while living with my parents?

Im almost 20 and still a virgin, i’m going on a date with a new girl next weekend.

Obviously it takes like 8 dates for the girl to want to have sex

Eventually i will need to know how to sneak sex, i can't move out because it’s too expensive.

Give me some ideas, my parents are controlling and i feel like my body my choice
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For example i could do it at the girls house or in my car, but give me more ideas
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  • Dude, I wouldn't recommend sneaking around with your parents in the house. That's just asking for trouble and it's disrespectful to them while you're still living under their roof. A better option would be to wait until you have more privacy.

    I know it's frustrating to still be a virgin at your age, but forcing the issue isn't worth the drama it could cause with your folks. My advice would be focus on really connecting with this girl and take things slow. Maybe suggest a date somewhere you could be alone, like parked in a quiet spot after a movie or something. You could make out and such to build intimacy, but don't feel rushed into sex.

    If it goes well with this girl, you'll have more opportunities down the line once you move out on your own. No need to jeopardize your living situation or damage trust with your parents. Communication and respect are so important in relationships - get used to that now. Your time will come, bro! Just be patient and enjoy your date without expectations. It'll happen when the time is right.

  • Hotel? Her place?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don’t sneak in and around their house. Find somewhere that works for you both, such as a hotel or maybe a friend has a place that you can use.

  • Well you have a window don't you so leave it open most nights and get a ladder! 🪜

    Sneak to the garage and have sex int he car or on blankets

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  • They have to go to work at some point

  • "8 dates for the girl to want to have sex." Either you are doing something wrong kiddo or you are dating the wrong women. If a woman likes you and is attracted it should not take 8 dates. If it takes 8 dates, she is using you, drop her. Anyway, sneaking sex is easy. Just do it at her place or somewhere else. Why do you have to be at your parent's place? And you need to get out of the parent's place, because women will not find that attractive anyway.

    • how many dates does it usually take

    • to have sex

    • It's like I said, if she really and truly likes you and finds you attractive, she is going to want to move forward around the second or third date. If it goes beyond that, don't waste your time man. Find someone else. She is either too shy or she is using you for events and dinners.

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  • Still wondering when this dude will get some.🍑🍑🍑

  • I’ve got a spare room if you need one kid

  • Airbnb. com

  • Want with sex after marriage. Unmarried sex is a sin.

    • LOL. OK Father O'Reilly! Hey, if it's a sin, sure feels good to me! I'll have fun in hell while you are in heaven having no fun. Real question I asked when I was a kid. "So Pastor, what do we get in heaven and what do we do all day?" "Oh well you get to praise God all day and sing with angels and sing praise to God!" Wow, sounds like a lot of fun! Personally I think the Muslims get a better deal. Garden of Allah, paradise with 72 virgins. Awesome!

  • Why don't you just talk to your parents. Tell them that you'd like to take your relationship to the next level. If you have some spare cash, plan a date they can have that's low budget but classy, while you have that go on. If they won't do that, find a cheap hotel in the area and let them know you'll be spending the night with her. You're a grown man. Take responsibility for yourself rather than sneak around like some horny teenager.

  • Really lol

  • Pour a bunch of Benadryl into your parents evening night cap 🤤

    • Lmaoooo

  • How in earth did you come up with the "fact" it takes '8 dates for the girl to have sex' ?

    It might take one date, or possibly 6, or even 10 dates, or 15, maybe more, it depends (mostly) on the girl... not everyone is the same, ... and you say in your update 'I could do it at the girls house, or in my car' ? Really? How will the girl, and her parents, feel about 'I could do it at her house' ?

    Looks like you're daydreaming about your sex fantasies can't help pitying the girl, if their really is one !

  • If you're 19 you should just be able to have sex whenever you want.

    • my parents dont understand that

    • From your other questions it looks like getting past your parents isn't the problem.

    • just cause you have small boobs doesn’t mean you can be an ass