How do I start getting men to take me serious and not want sex from me?

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Reaperbot666 Guru
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when you meet someone new. follow these 3 rules. for anything sexual oral, vaginal, anal, etc.

1. have to be dating for at least 90 days. before you have sex with them.
2. have to be in a exclusive couple with them. before you have sex with them.
3. both of you have to take a STD test. to prove your both clean. before you have sex together.

if they can't follow those rules. there not worth your time. for a lasting relationship.
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- Asker
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  Yes I got to learn how to take people's advice because people are actually trying to help me.
- Reaperbot666
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  dress is a more modest manner also when on a date. nothing overly reveling.
- Asker
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  I quit online dating.
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- Reaperbot666
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  smart. most people just use it for hookups and one night stands.
- Asker
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  I know lol that is why I stop using them because the dudes I was matching with just wanted casual.
- Reaperbot666
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  most dating apps are in favor of females most often. unless the guy is super attractive.
- Asker
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  What you mean by that?
- Reaperbot666
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  Tinder Experiment: 18 Yr Old Woman Tries Being A Man!!!
  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw&t=17s
- Reaperbot666
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  after you watch it. read over some of the comments. people put about it.
- Reaperbot666
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  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vat7bMxFG6M
- Reaperbot666
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  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4E8qEDi_xg
Anonymous
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Dress in a decent manner and become successful in life. Then most of men would take your seriously

Another way is not to care about opinions of other people
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potatoiswhoiam Yoda
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Decline sex in the beginning of the relationship, let them wait and be patient, establish a relationship based on love, loyalty, trust and communication and make sex a part of it and not its foundation
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samiammm Xper 6
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Be upfront and firm.

Men always want sex
Let them know what you want.
If they are interested they will adjust accordingly.
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OlderThanILook Xper 7
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Why do you want a guy that doesn't want to have sex with you?

To answer your question though just date someone religious
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- Asker
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  I dont want a man that is just going to want sex from me and do not see me as being beneficial as a girlfriend.
- OlderThanILook
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  I think the two go hand in hand. I would want a girlfriend that has sex with me. Nothing less than that.
Alexandrubaschet08 Guru
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What do you want from mens then?
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- Asker
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  For the guy to actually put in some work and not be lazy.
- Alexandrubaschet08
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  work what? please, be more explicit
- Asker
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  Someone who is actually want to try to get to know me and dont be trying to do bare minimum.
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- Alexandrubaschet08
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  Knowing a person come in time, that is automatly and what meen minimum, what do you meen. Do you meen to whait thil mariage or a long time before be in a relationship?
- Asker
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  Someone that I know is not going to cheat on me or make up excuses why he can't see me. I want someone who is going to want to be there without me questioning his actions.
- Alexandrubaschet08
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  Nobady can predict that, an aunt of mine left his husband ather 20 yares of mariage and afther she made whit that guy 4 kids. Nobady expected that. You can't say what gone hapen. This is the life
- Asker
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  Yep I agree you will forever not know.
CasaNorba Guru
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say NO more often and show that you got more than just sex to bring to the table
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chriscdi Master
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be harder to get
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- Asker
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  That is dumb too why so he can go hit up some other female behind my back. To u aren't going to get him if you do that either.
- chriscdi
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  if he isn't willing to fight for you then it wouldn't be worth it anyways
- Asker
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  Exactly, the stuff does not even make any sense. You dont realize that society lets men have multiple partners if a woman does it she is a slut. I dont get that double standard because you can't make anyone do anything they dont want to do.
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- chriscdi
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  then stop chasing deadweight
- Asker
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  Good luck you people dont understand that I dont have any control over that stuff. It isn't my fault that men just want sex.
- chriscdi
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  thats why i told you to be harder to get, if they just want sex, they will expose themselves when they see you dont spread your legs easily, some men manipulate too so you always have to be careful but the players would leave when they see you want a relationship, and talking about sexual shit in the beginning is a dead giveaway of what they are seeking
- Asker
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  I guess I take your word on it but there is a lot of men out there that just want sex. They aren't going to put any work for you if they dont want a relationship. You got to go through a lot of bullshit in life to get what you want.
- chriscdi
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  yes life isn't fair and its not easy but some things are just worth fighting and living for, when you find the person, you will know what i mean, took me 19 years to find someone worth my time and it was worth every second, lots of obsticles in the way but i made it, im sure you'll find someone
Raja1881 Xper 4
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Wear clothes and don't talk like a slut.
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In_Trance Master
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Keep your clothes on
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Anonymous
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Become a male.
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Anonymous
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They are serious when they say that they want sex
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- Asker
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  I dont understand why they want to sleep with all those women. If a woman does it she looks undesirable. Double standards just makes everything confusing. Because you all say for a woman to leave if a man can't stay faithful and thinks that he can leave at anytime. But nobody tells a man how to treat a woman and if a woman sleeps with a man too soon she deserves to be left. That makes no sense to me at all. I think both parties should respect themselves and one another.
- Opinion Owner
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  Actually, both parties consent. So I don't think I can blame him or her. Ultimately key is the woman. She is in control of her body. If a man wants to use her body she has to give permission otherwise it will be forced rape and hideous. I think your question was why you can't sleep around and still be in a relationship. I think you can do that many women sleep outside relationship and many don't
Anonymous
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Don’t put out, if you want a guy to take you seriously, make him earn sex
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- Asker
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  I understand where you coming from but some dudes dont care they try to do as little as possible. Some guys dont want to put in any work to get sex.
- Jamie05rhs
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  If they don't put in the work, then don't give them any rewards. Simple as that.