How do I stop liking/wanting anal sex?

Please do not say that I should just embrace it. I will never ever try anal in real life. I'd rather die. That's how much I hate it. And it's unnatural and unhealthy too. Like, people who have anal need to wear diapers when they're older. It's so groce and disgusting. The thing is, I used to watch a lot of p*rn, and that's how this got into my head. ughh. I've stopped watching p*rn, but I can't seem to orgasm from fantasizing about anything other than anal. I'm serious, normal sex does nothing for me. After I masturbate to anal, it makes me feel extremely degraded, and even depressed. I've broken down in tears afterwards. It's not the masturbation, I've been masturbating since forever, it's the anal part which makes me feel disgusting. This is affecting me mentally, emotionally and spiritually. It's not because I have sexual hang-ups, I'm very kinky/open-minded, but anal makes me feel degraded and worthless Should I see a counsellor/psychologist? Will therapy help me get rid of these fantasies? Again, please don't say that I should accept it! I'm not going to accept being degraded.
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  • Sounds like the cure is... try anal

  • I'd love to fill your asshole with cum and then spit on your pretty face & slap your buttcheeks. You'd be subimisive as fuck. I know that. ;)

  • I don't understand why you think anal is degrading. My wife and I do anal all the time and we both find it very loving and intimate and she gets great orgasms from it. It doesn't have to be degrading.

    Also, your concerns about health and safety are unfounded. Normal anal sex is perfectly safe and does not cause incontinence. Sorry but that's just nonsense.

  • Its a heqlty fantasy, but you won't get over it until you try it.

  • You have problems

    Embrace it lol

  • Wait, I'm confused. You don't like anal, can't stand it, find it disgusting, never going to try it, have no interest in it... but you masturbate to it?

    Or are you saying you want to be comfortable with telling dudes that you have no interest in it or something like that?

    • I hate that I like it. I don't want to like it.

    • I see. So now that it's cleared up and I understand your question, you didn't want to hear someone tell you to accept it... soooo, I guess I don't have an answer for you at this point if that's the case lol