How do I stop reminiscing about our sex?

I keep reminiscing about the sex me and this guy had. Me and him use to talk but he stopped talking to me and now he’s moving. He also took my virginity. That was the first and last we had sex. I’m trying to get over him but I keep daydreaming about the sex we had.
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  • Hey, don't agonize over that. I have been reminiscing AND jacking off re: the sex that I had with a girlfriend that I had when I was 27 and she was near your age. (23) That is not really unusual, if the sex was really good and you cared about the person. This particular girl was unusual in that she was very open and forthcoming about her sex life, her sexual fantasies, and what MY sexual experiences had been, and I have NEVER found that with another girl. She went as far as telling me: "Ya know, before we dated, I masturbated "dry" and since with you, I get my clit wet" NOW THAT is really open and forthcoming about her sexuality etc.

    I may NEVER find another like her, at least at this point in my life, (maybe if I were in my 20's again, maybe then)
    My advice is to just "roll with it" and enjoy what you had and don't regret or look back.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Of course you would do that,
    It was a new experience,,,, like going to another world... but the thing is you have to move on... go out with friends and do meetups maybe you could find a guy better than him

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah it's hard if he was the first one. It's going to stick with you for a while but with time

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  • just think about it when you're touching yourself

  • And that's why we waited for marriage.

  • If the sex is good you can always visit him or he can always visit you.

  • I'd daydream of having sex with a beauty like you you're both sexy and gorgeous the guy you are speaking about must be either stupid and blind or both.

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    • @Still-alive that's what I do here lol. I'm good at spotting fake accounts

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  • I think the only solution for this is time

  • Just don't do the reminiscing with the next guy you get involved with.

  • Keep masturbating, you'll get over him eventually.

  • Might try and find a new friends with benefits or boyfriend to fill in and start making new memories.

  • Have different sex

  • Was your Frist love i understand i was same with girl I lost mine to. Need to move on do you no point looking back move forward. Even tho it's hard it's worth doing

  • From the description it sounds like you think more about the sex than him

    Understand that this was special to you bring your first and only (i guess)

    Never mind, try catching up other things in life and eventually when you've more experience, you'd laugh at it