How do I stop thinking of him when I masturbate?

When i watch porn i start masturbating and this one guy keeps popping up in my head and i can't cum unless i think of him i have tried for a while now and i thought i was over him but i guess not and I've never had sex with him how do i stop thinking about him and cum without thinking about him😫
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  • I'm the same. I find my mind always goes to one of a couple of women that I knew years ago. I don't fight it because it works. You may find it helpful to look at photos of a different guy or watch porn while you masturbate.

    • Okay thank you for your genuine advice.

    • 🤗🤗

  • Why do you want to stop thinking about him if it gets you off?

    • Im trying to move on

    • It's only masturbation though it's bit like you're trying to stop sleeping with him, I think you're being too hard on yourself.

    • Ok I've been told im too hard on myself so ill just let it go

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  • I see no reason to stop.

  • What is one thing that turns you on when you masturbate or maybe look at your pussy in the mirror while you masturbate, watch how stimulated your lady parts are turned on always go slow than speed things up, concentrate on teasing your clit, lick your fingers to taste yourself, in the mirror look how swelled your pussy is and how wet you watch how your clit is throbbing, See getting yourself off of thinking of the guy and concentrate looking in the mirror to your lady parts your getting off too?

  • Stop masturbating for a while and see of that helps.

    • I probably will tbh

    • You will enjoy it more too,👍👍

    • Really? I've always heard of that but never actually tried it

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  • why do you have to stop?

    • Im trying to move on

    • naaahh. just keep it up if it makes you cum

    • So ur telling me if ur trying to get over someone u would keep thinking of them and be ok with that? I wanna stop

  • have sex with him

    • 😂😂😂is this the only way for it to stop?

    • yup.

  • Picture an old wrinkly man instead...

  • Cum one hundred times by thinking about him then he will leave your head

    • !! creative answer

    • It worked for me 😂

    • Okay I’ll try this

  • think about me instead

    I'm really hot

    • Ill try

    • do you want pics? DM me

    • IT WAS A JOKE

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  • I am in the same boat. Im not suppose to think about her but I can't help. I gave up trying to stop.

    • Try taking some advice u see from this post i think im gonna try some of the advice I've been given on this post. Someone said cum 100 times thinking of him and itll stop and then someone suggested not to masturbate for a while

    • Goodluck with that.

  • If you mean porn actor
    It is normal because you had a romantic relationship with him and you were attracted to him as if he was having sex with you, do you understand what I mean?
    I think you should do it without porno film