There are a couple ways to go about it it depends on how serious you are about the guy and how serious he is about you if you're dating the guy and he knows you're a virgin and you want to wait until marriage and he has accepted that then I think that's very cool I've been in this situation before and we had talked about sex having sex and coming and making each other feel good and I was okay with her waiting until marriage and when we would make out she would feel how hard I was either up against your leg or just see it in my pants she would allow me to give her oral and she also knew that she could trust me and I think one of the hardest things is she asked me one time can I see it and I told her no LOL of course I was just teasing but in that moment I said no I said I'd rather do it a different way.
She asked me how I asked her if she trusted me
She said yes you know I do. I said okay well then I told her I was about to do everything that I would do is if we are going to make love except for I'm not going to penetrate her and I said let's go about it that way I want you to feel it first and then you can look at it LOL so we started making out all our clothes came off I rolled her over on top of me I set her up on my hips and got her sat just right and I stood here forward and I stood her back I stood her forward and I said her back within seconds she was soaking wet and every time I would pull her forward or push her back she was just staring at it I was going in slow motion soon her pussy lips were straddled on each side of my cock and she told me she was so turned on she almost wants to have sex right now but she said it would hurt and we did this for about 45 minutes he would just start rocking her h i p s so hard and of course to have an orgasm. Make sure she was embarrassed to tell me and I can only tell and then after that if we are in bed together or cuddling or something she'd always say I want to see it and she was always start taking off my pants
So I guess you could try that way I think the best option is just to ask just say you're curious and explain why there's nothing wrong with wanting see it are wanting to experience it but you have to ask or say something to whoever it is that you want to say because the guy has to know in order to do that for you and I don't think there's anything wrong with it I think it's kind of a turn-on myself
No polite way. A friend I had while working for the State of CA, and I got into a discussion of penis size. Walking to the parking lot, she said to me: 'Most women prefer THICK" and she held her hand out making a circle with her thumb and middle finger with her fingers not touching. I said to her: "Thank you for saying that, as I have a very thick penis. Do you want to fuck" ?
That is what started us fucking, and she loved my thick penis.
No polite way "How long, thick, is your erect penis" ?
Well the idea of waiting for sex until marriage is so you are more likely able to be committed to that person beyond the sex. I personally don’t really think you will last doing this because you don’t even get the overall gist of waiting until marriage means or does for the relationship. Hate to break it to you, big dick doesn’t equal great performance by the way. Also asking about a guys size which ever way will insulate and que that you are interested in sex before marriage.
I mean I've read posts on here about women who love their boyfriend/husband deeply but he has a really small penis and it causes problems. I wanna make sure he's not below average and avoid that?
Then that defeats the whole purpose of waiting until marriage for sex. You are supposed to love your man beyond penis size in that sense. Just don’t do it if you aren’t invested in the actual result of waiting
I've never been in love, so I don't know what to expect
Well if you are worrying that you won’t be able to enjoy with him because of his size, then you need to forget about all of the wait until married before sex. It really makes no sense. Sexual compatibility not just in terms of size, but in terms of what you enjoy and how often do you like pleasure, is important. You need to have sex before marriage to find out.
Or she could just try out different sizes of dildos.
@Jamie05rhs that might answer the size question but not the rest
But the size question is the question she is asking.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If you ask him, he can lie. It's best see for yourself. But if your the type to wait until marriage, you'll have to wait until your honeymoon. I was not a virgin when I got married but my wife was. It took us three nights to fully penetrate because she was tight and I am pretty big in girth. I was slow and gentle and she felt pain and discomfort. Eventually she took me in and loved the feeling.
simple...
and dont ask him..
Instead, do it during making out with him... nothing wrong with touching it, and taking it out of his pants to feel it.. see how hard he gets.. and give him a hand job or if you are brave, a blow job.
This does not mean you are going to have sex... and most guys will Gladly let you check out their cocks.
I've wondered this also.. At least boobs you can get a decent Idea lol
There’s no way to get that answer without it being EXTREMELY obvious.
Since you are not going to fuck him since you are waiting till marriage or at least something serious, why do you even care? Unless you are intending to fuck, no reason to be interested. If you are interested in a guy enough to have serious thoughts, do things with him that get you giving him a hand job or blow job. Then you will know exactly.
There is no way to "subtly" ask that question.
Literally just ask. Dont try to be subtle, most guys love bragging about their cock unless they are really tiny. But ultimately if you are saving yourself for marriage you clearly have much bigger priorities about your potential partner than his junk.
Give the guy (s) a handjob...(they love them!) That way you stay a virgin and you get to see how big or small their penis is.
Umm you either come out & ask, ... or you don't bring it up.
PS) Virginity is over-rated. You should get over yourself. Some pre-marriage "training" is good for your marriage. A guy doesn't want the added pressure of working around your 'training-wheels' & being you're 'first' on your honeymoon, cause the first couple times sucks.
" A guy doesn't want the added pressure of working around your 'training-wheels" Many guys where I'm from would jump at the idea of being sex teacher, and would value it even more if it doing it for their wife.
That's what you think! ;)
Just do a little sexting with him. If he's a decent size, you'll get a dick pic in no time. If you don't get a dick pic, he's probably tiny.
Set up some hidden cameras in the bathroom.
No need to even ask.
Not necessarily all guys, but most, the distance from their wrist to the tip of the middle finger is very close to the length of their erect penis.
So just have him show you his hand with palm side up. (Can kinda play it off by handing him something and he'd be none the wiser.) Anywho, when you tell him to put out his hand, glance quickly to see the wrist-to-tip distance and you'll have your answer.
You can guess his girth also if you see his hand form a circle like he's saying "zero". Play a game where you pretend you're looking through binoculars at each other. The you can guess his approximate thickness.
I've used this guage since I first became active and still use it to this day. I haven't been wrong yet.
So maybe try it! GOOD LUCK. 😊
If you haven't had sex yet how do you know if his dick size is even relevent?
I don't know if it is, I just see women on here saying they wished their man wasn't small
Exactly! She doesn’t. She is reading into things that don’t even apply. I just told her a dick can be big and performance can be bad and she glazed right over that. Totally ignored it 😊 @asker if you are expecting the guy to wait just like you, you can’t expect him to be fucking you like a pornstar would.
Virgin? Then why tf would you ask him. you're adding stipulations to the relationship by asking. By asking You might as well say "if your dick is small then you can go" to get married youd be better off respecting your husband. Jesus Christ!
Every question has an implication as to why the person is asking.
won't you see it when you're giving him a blowjob?
Direct question. Get a tape measure and tell him to go out back and measure. That is if you’d prefer not to do it yourself, since guys always Lie all the time anyway. Only sure method is go in and find the answer for yourself.
Just ask him, I asked my current boyfriend over the phone and he just told me, that simple😂
Ask him for the D pics, or just come be one of the wives in my harem, you won't find a better and thicker D than mine!
When ur sitting on a couch watching a movie or something together casually feel over his pants for his penis get him aroused by doing this than ul be able to better determine his size.
Oh wow um you could just have sex and find out.
just rub it when you are kissing him
No. Because he will stop you before it starts to grow. So you won't obtain any valuable data. It will be a failed mission.
@Jamie05rhs why would he stop?
@jenna15 Ummm... because he doesn't want to ejaculate.
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