How do I sugest (ex sex) to my ex, without being too blunt?

He is a guy and he was the one that ended the relationship.
And sex was not a problem.
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The break up was, according to him because he needed some time alone, because we weren't on the same page whan it came to life goals
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  • Don't do it, you are not over him and he might be over you. And you might get more attached to him but he won't. Really think about it and move on. But if you really really want to fuck him for one night. You could start to text him and after talking and probably memes you could tell him that you are really horny. And would like a one nighter.

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  • Since he was the one that ended the relationship, I think you should move on.

    (It would be really awkward if you asked and he turns you down, especially if he now has a new girlfriend and is sexually active... is he?)

    • He isn't. It's quite recent the break up

    • Looks like you still have feelings for him... Well, give it a try. Just text him if he likes to go for a drink, then tell him you like to have sex. PS: no need to find excuses or send hints. Meet him and tell him directly. It better this way so that there is no misunderstanding.

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  • Straight up ask him lol. No other way to do it.

  • You want to become a friends with benefits with him? and why he ended your relationship?

    • Yes, basically. He said he need some alone time, because we weren't exactly on the same page in life goals

    • I see, so your ex wanted to have children and you didn't? or the other way around?

    • That's part of it. He wanted to start a life together, I still wanted to find my place in the world, to understand what I wanted to do.

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  • you could ask him flat out, but be clear that getting back together is not your aim.

    i really think a dildo is what you need because it won't emotionally hurt you

    • Nah, I kinda would appreciate his penis actually. I just don't want to flat out ask him to do it.

    • so if the next guy had the same size penis and fucked like him you still wouldn't be okay

  • You might need to be fairly blunt and come out and say what you want

  • Drop a hint and see where it goes

  • then send him a few pictures or describe something sexual

  • you don't

    you don't be a fucking idiot

    you must be a republican

    or as i like to call them "republicucks"

    • yeah hun he broke up with you he was being nice about it he said he needed space. he's done with you

  • Depends on why he ended it?

    • Just updated it 😊

    • Yes get after him, you are both older and hopefully a little smarter! Go for it!

  • Very carefully but blunt works best in that situation but bring a gift and be nice

  • Ask him if he would like a one nighter