How do I tell my boyfriend he isn't good at fingering?

Question

So my boyfriend and I got intimate and he was fingering me well and I just didn't feel good I mean I got wet but he didn't even touch my clit

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

Maybe "telling" him isn't what you should be thinking of. Just take his hand to make him stop and make his fingers go where you like. If he strays away from that position you keep pulling the hands to what you like. Moan and get vocal, telling him "he" found it, that right spot you like. Each time he leaves it, stop moaning. When you reach the hand up and put it back, moan and be vocal again, telling him he's got it again.

I swear, it's like teaching a puppy a trick sometimes. You gotta keep at him and eventually he gets it. LOL

Candy_Girl · Accepted Answer

show him how it's done ON HIM, he will see how it feels better on himself and will try to do the same on you.

Lyndsielee666 · Accepted Answer

... playing with your clit and fingering are two different things x'D

Froz_5061 · Accepted Answer

Show him how to do that : take his fingers and touch yourself with them. Make him improve !

ArrowheadSW · Accepted Answer

Oh I'd say cheerfully show him with your own fingers how you like it. Make it fun.

MyNameIsJonas · Answer

Just fucking tell him.

Frost_Byt3 · Answer

Don't say "your bad at fingering" and expect him to all of a sudden become a the god of fingering.  Give him some suggestions, or walk him through it. Take his hand and show him what you like.

KDA20 · Answer

Talk to him - Tell him how you like it

Dtegesd123 · Answer

Just tell him to touch your clit or place his hand there

Dim121 · Answer

by suggesting ways that he could better pleasure you

oldsoul82 · Answer

By telling him... tell him how you want it done. Be direct; he won't cry.

QuestionMan · Answer

Say this: "you fingering me it just didn't feel good I mean I got wet but you didn't even touch my clit"

fulloflife · Answer

U did wet? so must've been good to a degree

jakeofalltrades · Answer

Coach him.

redstar123123 · Answer

Just tell him. Easy as that.

Anonymous · Answer

Why don't you just tell or show him how to do it right. you don't have to say he's bad just show him how you like it.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't tell him directly like 'dude, you suck' lol do it when he does it and then just 'guide him' tell him. Tell him sth like 'i want you to play with it' or take his hand and show him, but in a sexy way with moans so he wouldn't take it as you trying to give him a 'how to finger: for dummies'