How do I tell my boyfriend his butt smells?

When I got with my current boyfriend he asked me what my fantasies were and I told him about liking the idea of being dominant, fingering his ass and rimming him. A few months ago I fingered his ass for the first time and he really enjoyed it and I liked the response I got. However afterwards my hands stunk! Took multiple washes for me to feel clean again. I presumed it was because it was a hot day and we had been out all day. However it's put me off slightly and makes me cringe whenever he brings it up. Any ideas how I can prevent this in future or tell him tactfully?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Communication rules the nation. Just be honest and tell him hell if you want to clear him out a day before give him 8 oz of miralax mixed with water or Gatorade, magnisum sultrate, ducalax tablets and buy him a 16 oz Gatorade so when he is clean as a whistle he can replace the minerals he just lost. Make him clean his insides well with an enema. How I know these things? I'm a pharmacy technician and I help many men get these items for a colonoscopy if he sticks after that use a glove and when your done don't let him see you but put your fingers by his nose if he ask what's that horrible smell tell him it's you. You should clean a little better.( be nice about it.)

  • You: "Yo! Douche!"
    BF: "WTF?"
    You: "Douche!"
    BF: "What'd I do?"
    You: "No, you need to douche!"
    BF: "WHAT?"

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    You: "Stick this thing up your ass and rinse out your asshole, asshole. We're going to fuck tonight."

    • hehehe... couldn't help it.

    • Hahahaha. I'll keep this as a backup

Most Helpful Girls

  • It could be something in his diet. Sometimes using lemon juice or mouth wash (which often has alcohol in it) on the skin after can remove some odors quicker. Odors stick more if they are from an oily substance or certain spices. The only other suggestion I have is perhaps having an enema before hand. There is plenty of info on the web about that. You can also use anal lube which has a scent to it sometimes.

  • I can't with how disrespectful and nasty some people can be. (no offense to your bf) but like, he needs to wash his fucking ass ! ESPECIALLY, knowing that your gonna stick your hand in there. Its so rude to not clean it all out. I feel so bad for you. Tell him he needs to wash straight up or else he won't get any sex

    • I know. It's a shame. His dick is always fine! Maybe he got lazy and didn't anticipate that on that day

  • Then don't do butt stuff right after being outside sweating all day. Shower first. How did this logic not occur to you?

    • Logic goes out the window when passion is involved!

  • Tell him to wash his ass. You can't sugar coat that kind of stuff.

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  • You can just tell him to wash it. But asses are supposed to stink (the inside) naturally anyway.

    Other than that, use a glove to finger him next time.

  • Its a poo hole where al your bodies toxins com out. Its not a sex organ what do you expect? lol If your down with anal you shouldn't be afraid of accidents or the smell.

  • Well...
    1. How do you know if your butt is just as bad or not? To get your butt and asshole clean - really clean - takes considerable work that most people do not do. There's a reason why "anal retentive" is in the lexicon.
    2. Have fun and take a shower with him, but you actually have an ulterior motive: give him an enema to help clean him out. Do this after he takes a dump first.

    I have something else to suggest, but I would discuss that in a PM.

  • You put your finger up his ass and you wonder why your hands stunk? lol What the hell did you expect? It's his ASS! What did you expect it to smell like? Roses?

  • Lol take showers before you stick your finger in sweaty ass. Also dont go smelling it either

  • You could wear gloves.

  • Just say dee da dee and he'll understand that you are retarded...

  • if you want to do anal stuff with him then make him take a shower first or douche himself a few times.

  • The way to prevent that is to wash with water!

  • dude you can´t expect litteral shit to smell super nice. you have to clean out thoroughly before doing butt stuff.

  • Don't do it unless he's showered before hand and clean I don't know lol, it's where poo comes from 😂😂 its never going to smell like roses

  • tell him to wash it

  • It's a man's ass lol what do you expect it to smell like peaches lol

    • Strawberries, actually

    • Women's asses smell exacly the same like shit! Gender doesn't matter!

  • So what you are saying is that your ass smells like daffodils?

    • Noo but I clean it pretty meticulously :P

  • Why do you complain about this? Butts supposed to be stinky.

  • Just tell him to shower and give himself an enema. Keep his little bussy clean

  • Stay away from the A

    Poop comes out of that thing

  • Maybe if you didn't stick your finger in an actual shit hole it wouldn't reek of shit.

  • Just grab a wash cloth and some soap and water and tell him to, "bend over!" lol 😂

  • Gross.