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Sexual Health How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to rape me until I like it?
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Question is pretty self-explanatory. I want him to force himself on me and not stop even if I tell him to until he cums or I start liking it and cum. It's my longest and most desired fantasy and I've tried my whole life and can't get over it. How do I ask him to do it without seeming weird and without him thinking he can do it any time? It's something I only want him to do sometimes.
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4 33it obvious that you have a clear "vision" of what you want... tell him over dinner, talk it out in a non-intimate setting.. that way he must listen and not "act"
But he has to do it anytime he wants. Otherwise it's pointless.
CNC, right? Well, you need to have a long talk about it.
just tell him you have rape fantasies, i'm sure he'll be ok with it. I have the secretary fantasy, i like sex with a woman in a business suit, nice satin top and a garter belt and stockings, we all have our own desires, just be honest about it
that puts him in a very dangerous position from a legal perspective
Safety words
What do you mean by "until I like it"? lol
You have to share this fantasy with him. However, depending on his personality, it may not be "in him" to do it if it's not his thing? It would be like you trying to force yourself to do something you just don't want to do or aren't into. But he can tell you if that's the case or not. I'm just saying if it is the case, you'll have to accept that. As he would have to if it was you and reversed.
Just like you've told us.
For the women in relationships with me, they've told me about their rape fantasies too.
And I respect that.
The only way I would do that is if we wrote up a contract and both signed it in the presence of a lawyer.
right... if I was in his shoes I'm not doing this without double verification of written consent and then video of you giving written consent and verbal consent
Sometimes these deep desires aren’t what you really want. I had the same deep desire to be brutally fucked in my butt, and when the time came and it happened I soon learned it wasn’t what I wanted, even though I fantasized about it since like 12 years old.
Just tell them and make sure you have a SafeWord
tell him he will like it
I hope so
tell him its kinky play
I want whatever you drink. coz i want to live your head 🤦🏻♂️
That's the funny thing about rape, you don't get to control it.
What you want is confusing.