How do I tell my boyfriend that I would like to spicy up things in bed?

I had an erotic dream where I was gangbang's by all of my boyfriend's friends (6).

Since I had that dream I keep feeling weird in presence of his friends. I imadvertedly flirt, I blush, etc... I feel that maybe I need to tell him.

Maybe he would like it? But I'm terrified of his possible negative reaction. How do I bring the issue?

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  • Tell him, your coochie is poisoning your brain with weird dreams, things that you don't want or desire in your concious state.

    If he really wants to know the dream, tell him.. also tell him it's not something you want, but it's something your fucked up turn on's want!. You aren't responsible for your turn on's since they are sexual hardwiring that happened at young age..

    Tell him, he means the world to you, and you would never do anything to screw the relationship you have.

    And stay away from his friends.. if they are his real friends, he wouldn't Worry!. They already considered you their Sister.

Most Helpful Guy

  • you simply tell him about the dream, he can't be mad of a dream, that's ridiculous, so tell him I had this dream last night and it was so wild, and if he asks you what do you feel about it, tell him it' jut a fantasy, you get to know his stance on the idea and stay in the safe one.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have to think assuming he is a pretty normal guy that he would not want to share his girls special parts with anyone else, especially his friends. For a guy to want that he can't be thinking very much about his girlfriend.

  • Leave a shaker of cayenne pepper on the nightstand, his side of course.

    • And the amount of pepper inside it is the amount of spiciness you want to add to your life

    • @abbycado good reply baby girl 💯💕

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  • Why don’t you just call them all over. Have your man join last. There is no time to ask for permission at that point.

  • Just tell him. Fortune favours the brave

  • tell him as it is.. lowkey he would turn into an ex then

  • I wish I had dreams like that 💃

    • Can you elaborate?

    • I want to be like you @claire2002

    • You need to get rid of your woman mentality snd think more like a doggie

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  • Six seems like way to many, so why not start off with a threesome with one of his friends, and see how it goes.

  • Just do it

  • Hopefully he dumps you

  • Be the change.

  • Girl up and tell, he might find it exciting

  • suggest you ask if he ever wanted to have more than one woman at once u have to understand that it has to work both ways if your not ok with him having a few girls at once then unlikely and selfish for you to have your cake and eat it lol

    • @claire2002

    • I would be okay with it. Good suggestion, I'll ask

    • @Rebecca08 why r u blocking me if its good suggestion?

  • So is it a gangbang u want or anything to make things more interesting

    • I would like a gangbang but I'm not sure how to tell him

    • Happy to chat if u want to drop me a message or follow