How do I tell my girlfriend is bad at sex?

My girlfriend just dont know how to please me in the bed. She can't know basic stuff about bj, handjob. I dnt even talk about anal sex. She said she had 3 bfs before but she isn't skilled. How do I tell her that? She even doesn't know how to ride me when she is on top.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Make suggestions... tell her what you like...
    Or if you are concerned you might upset her, take the reinforcement road...
    When she does something you like make a big fuss and when you don't, don't give it attention... It's basic behavioural psychology...
    As silly as it sounds, it will work to shape her behaviour in terms of how she pleasures you without her getting upset...
    There must be something she does that you like...

  • Why don't you just suggest way in which she could do specific things differently rather than flat-out telling her she's bad at sex? Like tell her that when she's on top, maybe she could try moving her hips up and down versus just grinding, or could move a little bit faster, etc..

  • Please don't tell her that. Just let her know what you would like she does by giving hints.

    • I would like she learn basic stuff about handjob, blowjob, anal sex. Can you help where I can get her that info?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Is she Asian? Some of them are like this. I doubt she was actually having sex with those 3 bfs - which is why she had 3 bfs - they walked out on her.

    You might have to show her. A girl that is bad at sex is something that can be worked on. I would take a girl that's bad at sex but otherwise good over any of the slutty gasbags we have nowadays

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  • You tell her its gonna make her feel awful, she probably might not even want to continue to have sex with you. Just show her what you want and practice.

  • You don't. Instead you teach her what you like...

  • Just tell her what you prefer her to do :3 that way she won't feel bad and so won't you. She's probably not use to sex.

  • awe this is cute, she's like a student, teach her and tell her to follow your lead

  • Don't have her on top then lmao

  • Never tell she bad at it. Instead teach her how to do it. It may works.

  • instead of telling her just teach her , take the control