How do I tell my girlfriend that I want to have sex with another man while she watches?

[Anonymous]

We've had a threesome with a girlfriend of hers, it was fun, but I really enjoyed watching them play with each other. Now, I have this fantasy of me kissing, sucking dick, and getting fucked by another guy while she watches. I'm extremely turned on by the thought.

I enjoy anal play a lot, and she actually encourages it. She likes to strap it on and peg me from time to time. I really want to experience a real cock. I want to dress up like a girl, and get dominated by another guy in front of her, but I don't know how to approach the subject.

Help, opinions and suggestions, please from both men and women.

[RobT312]

Get talking with her! You both are obviously kinky with threesomes and strapons…. just continue the convo ! Tell her your fantasies, shell tell u hers. My fiancee and i were offered a threesome opportunity which lead to us talking about all sorts of sexual stuff including me potentially doing bisexual stuff… its fun dude, go for it!

[Asker]

Was it a turn on for the both of you?

[RobT312]

Yup! I never thought id try bi sex , so it was a shock. I loved it. My fiancee surprisingly also got super turned on by us together… she loved watching me get fucked. She loves seeing us make out too

[Asker]

Damn that sounds fucking Hot! My girlfriend loves the sounds and expressions I make when she pegs me. I hope to be as lucky as you.

[RobT312]

Haha awesome dude!! We have been doing it over a year now with our same friend. We all enjoy it. Seems so weird but something just clicks with the 3 of us

[Asker]

Awesome for you guys. Good luck to you guys and wish me luck.

[RobT312]

Yeah dude have a great time! Its a blast. Maybe since the sex acts are all new! Good luck breaking the ice!

[Billlewis]

Have a few drinks with her and then ask her.

[Asker]

Lmao, ok I'll give it a try.

[Anonymous]

Why does that sound soooo freaking hot like if she doesn’t watch I’ll do it lmao jkjk


Yeah talk to her about the idea you guys are already an open minded couple and communication is keys. Hell try to make a PowerPoint to help lol

[Asker]

What's your opinion on guys have sex?

[iseekpinetrees]

Just straight up tell her don't beat around the bush.

[Asker]

I've thought about using your rout of asking. I mean I'm basically asking her if it's ok if I dress as a girl and give a guy a BJ and let him take me up the ass. What would you say if you're boyfriend asked you?

[iseekpinetrees]

Go for it

[Asker]

I'm going to. What's your opinion of a guy dressing as a girl to basically play the role of the women in the bedroom in front of their girlfriend. Yay or nay? Would you be ok with it? Is it too gay?

[iseekpinetrees]

It doesn't bother me

[Asker]

I hope that I can pull this off. I'm so turned on by the thought of a woman, and not just any woman, my girlfriend watching me get, pardon my French, get fucked my another guy.

[ILoveeatingGirlass]

Lol I’d do it to him fuck it

[ILoveeatingGirlass]

I think it’s kind of hot if she gets off to it

[2021biguy]

Just try talking to her about it.

[Asker]

As to see if she'd be open to the idea? Or should I just come out and say it?

[2021biguy]

Try both if you are close to her.

[Asker]

We are, and thanks.

[2021biguy]

Ok good, you're welcome.

[Anonymous]

A girl I was seeing did this a few years back. I had the exact same fantasy and I asked her and we set up the threesome with a mutual friend of ours. We had a few drinks beforehand to loosen things up (no pun). We started getting into it and she was getting turned on and started touching herself while talking dirty to me. We even had anal in front of her where he dominated me. She seemed really into it and both of us came. He inside me and me inside his hand and everything seemed all right.

Afterwards, though, things got really weird. The other guy and I were fine and understood it was a one time thing. My girlfriend, however, got very jealous and was hounding me with questions. It got to the point where I wanted to move on from the whole scenario and she would not let it go. I started regretting experimenting in front of her and it just got to be too much and we broke up. Now I found a new girlfriend who is more accepting.

[Asker]

So, you're warning me to be careful on how I approach and play this fantasy out.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, it’s hard to tell how they’re going to react too. Even though she’ll say she’s into it, it could still backfire.