I would not tell her that at all and you should try to get one on your own and hide it well. My mom found a few of my sex toys and threw them away each time I was under 18 at the time and at one point she just stopped worrying about and snooping around. She would lecture me about how masturbating and how it is wrong and about watching p*rn and im really mom you and dad are not married so don't lecture me on living in sin. She told my father and I lost all trust for her. Im sure father's don't want to know their daughter or using dildos and vibrators even though his response was that at leas she is exploring herself and not with guys I still was embarrassed. She may freak out or not approve so I think this should be something private just figure out a way to get it on your own and hide it or guard it safely lol.
Get it on your own. Since you're under 18, you'll have to buy one that isn't marketed as a sex toy. Spencer's has them as like.. gag gifts... Stores like walmart might have back massagers that will work well as vibrators. If you're really open with your friends about masturbation (most aren't though, and you dont want to embarasse yourself), if one of them is 18, they could just get one at a sex shop for you
You might be able to order them too.
true, but they'd get delivered to her house. And I doubt she has her own credit card. Someone is going to want to know what that charge was, or if her parents are nosy, they might just take the box it comes in and open it
I don't know the kind of relationship you and your mother have, but I guarantee you 98% of moms really do not want to know about your sexual habits. Use your own money and buy it from a store. People in sex shops are typically very helpful and they will give you all the information that you need and want. Your choice to involve your mom in your sex life is totally up to you though!
I personally feel honesty is always the best approach. I think you should just say to your mum I need to talk to you and can you please here me out and then just say it. I do understand how embarrassing that is tho but if your mum finds the vibrator it may make her mad that you were not honest. I would have thought any parent would rather her daughter had sex toys than was sleeping around with endless men. I know I would.
right, i believe that if i do tell her she shouldn't be all that mad because at least i'm not sleeping around and want something to substitute sexual activities with others.
Exactly, yeah and it is completely natural anyway. A person can not help how horny they are. I know if I was a parent I would be fine with a daughter having her toys.
Why do you want to ask this to mom. You are grown up and these are personal things which you will have to manage yourself. All such things that are related to maturity and does not affect your parents are to be managed by yourself.
i want to save the trouble of her possibly finding it in my room if she was to be in there
Even if she find her it in your room , she will not complain to you about it. It is the way how elders deal with such matters. Buying a dildo or sex toy is better than going outside and have sex with somebody.
okay, i see where you're coming from now.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Honestly your mom probably does not want to know. I would just get one and skip the step of telling her. It's probably for the best.
oh, were pretty close i just thought it's be right lol but okay i will then!
um i wouldn't tell her if I were you... get it on your own however you can
I wouldn't. Ever.
You tell her nothing, and acquire it on your own. Just order one off amazon, and have it mailed to a friends place.
I think it's clear what you do. Just ask her for an Amazon card, tell her your buying school supplies.
*Amazon Gift Card
haha "school supplies ;)" okay
Amazon has a huge selection of them. Being a perverted guy I've looked at them myself out of curiosity, I can say for a fact that you can find what you want there. Even if you're into elephant size dildos. Although expect large shipping costs. School supplies is a bit too vague though. I suggest thinking of something specific, like a new binder.
Umm… how about don't tell your mum?
Tell her its either a vibrator or a man with the baby juice. She would have to buy you one after that. Plus it seems like it could be an awkward and funny memory to one day horribly remember haha.
That's not something you should be telling your mom. Look at drugstores too in the condom section, some places have vibrators in the same area.
Hahahaahha thats embarrassing as "L" xD
well i don't know how she'll be if she just randomly found it if she was to some in my room one day.
Well there's no need for one. Im here to help u x)
ahaha but i need for one for when i get urges when i can't get satisfied by someone.
I don't think you really need to tell her. I wouldn't. Not even sure she would want to know.
Get it on your own if you have a nearby Spencer's store around. Personally I wouldn't tell my mom about my masturbation life.
just use your cell phone :P
Do you have a credit/debit card of your own? If so, just buy one online.
Or go to a sex shop with your friend (you have to wait outside since you aren't 18) and have them buy one for you.
tell her i am horny mom
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