Sexual Relationships
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How do I tell them?

Maybe 3 months into my pregnancy I found out my bd gave me herpes. I felt like my world was over one of main reasons I tried so hard to make it work with him. Even though he was still having sex with other girls. Most didn’t know ofc… and now I’m somewhat ready to put myself out there. What’s stoping me telling people I have herpes. I met this one guy… friend convinced me not to tell him anything and we had sex. I made sure I was good at least two weeks before even considering it ofc been keeping track with my out breaks. Taking my medicine when I feel one coming or see one. Point is I made sure I was good before sliding to his his place. He had no condom we continued. Less then 10% chance of me passing it was what I kept repeating. He now occasionally texts me wanting to continue to have fun. But now my guilt got the best of me and don’t know how to tell him. Or anyone in that case… I just want to go back to two years ago where I didn’t have to worry about this. Question is how do I tell him and anyone in the future. I been out the game for over 4 years. And this makes it even worse or my fear f rejection and self esteem…
Updates:
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Okay some of y’all are ignorant ase! And it’s infuriating. Bc of you so your research nothing much has changed. ONE you don’t pass it to your kids unless you gave vaginal birth and were having an outbreak and even then they could possibly be okay. I READ ALMOST EVERY ARTICLE OUT THERE. She’s a VERY HEALTHY healthy baby girl. Secondly like I said MANY people have it. You yourself could have possibly have messed with someone who was unaware of having it. The most common way you get it bc they
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We’re unaware of there first outbreak. WMD accidentally passed it ion. Many people get to have healthy relationships and have PLENTY of sex and other person could still not get it. It’s all about safety and understanding. Some of y’all I truly don’t know how y’all get through life bc the ignorance is real and it fucken shows your character
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  • Please ghost him. Unfortunately I am not exactly aware of the treatments regarding herpes but if you don't wish to be like your ex and spread the disease to someone else, pull out the dating game.

    When you are recovered to the extent of not transmitting herpes, then feel free to indulge. If not, then for the sake of others, you will have to have emotional relationships only (and some physical affection such as hugs and kisses)

    It's not your fault, it's his but neither of you can do anything about it, except keeping it in your pants and saving others And getting the required treatment.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You should tell your partners before having sex as its messed up to give them a sexual disease without their knowledge.

    • I agree and its always best to just be upfront and honest.

Most Helpful Girl

  • You haven't mentioned how your pregnancy went and whether you had a boy or girl.

    • Sorry wasn’t really thinking it was the moral of the question. She’s was born a healthy baby girl. 8lbs full of life since birth. Took my meds everyday so u could experience child birth the way I wanted to

    • That's so lovely to read and many, many congratulations... Thank you.

    • Thank you for the MHGirl.

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  • Consider your sex life over. New chapter in your life will be to gain enjoyment from raising that child. Also, make sure you let the child know that they too will have herps. And will have to let anyone they eventually have sex with, that they have it.




    Don’t sleep with sluts. Your bd, is a man slut

    • Read the update bc your ignorance is ridiculous

    • Thank you baby girl.

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