How do I turn a guy on before sex?

Been dating a guy for a while now and the topic of sex is coming up more often. However, I'm a virgin and he on the other hand is very experienced (been in a long term relationship and is very confident.) I'm slightly clueless on what I should do when the time comes but want to make sure it is enjoyable for both of us as much as possible. Girls, do you have any advice on what you've done in the past which has worked. And guys, what are some of the main things which turn you on? Thanks.
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Superb Opinion

  • I guess the hierarchy of senses in men is a good place to start.

    Men are by design and genetics and evolution visual. We get turned on the most by what we see. That explains the emphasis on appearance as a way to attract a man's attention. That' also why porn is so popular and why TLNs ( Trashy Little Nothings) lingerie are so popular. Sp dress sexy, move sexy, flirt, smile a lot.

    Number two is smell. Figure out what perfume drives him crazy and wear that.

    Third is touch. Touch him a lot. Don't be bashful to touch him everywhere. The balls are a lot more sensitive than his cock.

    Does that help? This may help further as well.

    How To Ask a New Prospective Lover for Sex (The way you want it) ↗

Most Helpful Guy

  • There's plenty of ways and it all starts from when you meet!
    - dress in a sexy way or show yourself off to him
    - brush against him with your arms or legs on him
    - you can use your legs to brush against his dick to get him slightly hard
    Then when it escalates
    - neck kissing
    - gentle biting on the ear
    - maybe strip or tease him a little
    - grind against him with clothes still on
    What you need to understand is guys get turned in easily enough so it won't be difficult. And you can always ask the guy what he wants from you and he can help you out!

Most Helpful Girls

  • wear the shortest skirt or dress heels make up show as much skin as possible you'll get him hard before he touches you

  • Whatever you do let him know you are a virgin for heaven sake

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I will tell you the biggest turn on a girl has ever done for me. Now I will preference me and her were both virgins. We were cuddling to a show and like you sex was brought up more and more. I had my arm wrapped around her. She grabbed my hand and placed it on her chest. My heart rate went through the roof. Then she while still gripping my hand gave it a squeeze in turn forcing me to gently squeeze her boob. We turned toward each other and made out. It was go time.

  • tell him you want him to teach you about sex, that should work

  • Easy, show hime you boobs or grab his hand and put it on your boob.

  • Honestly my girlfriend being naked gets me hard. Also if she's in her polka dot panties laying on her stomach

  • Give him viagra

  • Focus on exposing your legs and play a lot with his penis and sack