How do men usually have sex?

I am been having sex within a new relationship recently and I am unsure if this type of sex is normal.

in previous relationships when he’s been on top, it’s always been sex in an ‘in-and-out’ sort of something. With him, he doesn’t seem to be actually moving the penis but simply moving his hips back and forth.

im not being critical - I am simply curious
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I never had sex with a girl but with me, I would like it to be in the shower with me doing vaginal sex from behind... I believe that would be best for me cause I'm smaller down there I won't lie but maybe I need to get more blood flow to go down there?

    • Honestly if you’re smaller don’t feel so bad about it. I have been with guys of different lengths and as petite woman (usually have a shorter pathway between the vaginal hole and cervix), small sizes are much more pleasurable for me. Large sizes often cause a huge level of discomfort.

    • @hellothere543212 Thank you for your response well appreciated :-)

    • Thanks for MHO :)

  • Every position I can get into and hold for awhile, or she can. There isn't a right or wrong way. Maybe he will go too fast, so he is trying to make it last longer.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds not normal to me. Maybe go to sexpositions. com and talk about some other positions you and him could try. Doggy might be good. Something where he can’t crush your boobs.

  • You'd better help that poor guy. Are you sure it wasn't his first time?

    • Is that not normal 😂? I thought that it might be his technique or something. He seemed pretty sure of himself

    • Not normal in my experience. I would not like that. I'm surprised any man would enjoy that really.

    • It was literally just him there and his penis in the position in the vagina. But he was like lying on top of me and sort of moving his hips so I’d move more so than the penis haha

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  • Naked, and with a woman.

  • If he's moving his hips how does his penis not nove with his hips? 🤔😳

    • It’s hard to explain. The position of the penis in the vagina wasn’t changing. It was as if he was lying on top of me and just sort of wobbling me up and down 😂

    • What a weirdo lol Was it his first tine?

    • No which was weird! He was confident afterwards. I really think he thought it was mind blowing sex for me. All I felt was my boobs being squashed lol

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  • When I masturbate, I do both, it just depends on the In Moment feelings

  • Funny :)

  • Cowgirl is my favorite position.

  • That's new to me. I've never heard of having sex like that

  • With their penis

  • I LOLd.

    • What sorry haha

    • Also - dont have premarital sex.

    • What do you mean by LOLd. What is your opinion on my question?

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  • ANY kind of sex is fair game as long as it's between consenting adults and no one gets hurt.

  • I think hip movement is always needed

  • with our penises

  • Was he doing it outside your vag?

    • Inside!

    • Missionary position should be most common

    • I liked giving oral and almost standing position sex where I was standing by bed side and partner is on bed

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  • Consensually

  • Sometimes you just need to wiggle it around in there

  • I like to move move move in what ever position but there are times that I just like to spoon inside her. That never seems to last long though as It turns her on...

  • Haven’t had it

  • It sounds lke he is doing some weird shit to try to prolong the experience. How long does it take for him to shoot his load?

    • About 20 minutes

    • Yeah, that's a long time. That wouldn't do it for me!