How do promiscous woman who had tons of casual sex and kinky sex (gangbangs, threesomes) cope up in a monogamous marriage?

[Anonymous]

How do they control their urges of gangbangs and multiple partners that their body is used to it and suddenly adjust to monogamy? If an inexperienced boy marries such a woman trusting her for monogamy then will he be under pressure of getting cheated or divorced after some days as the woman is not used to monogamy so far? Will his marriage fail? I know Its not easy for men either.

[LesterJester]

This would be something you would obviously try to know and sort out BEFORE getting married.

If it was just an experimental time in her life or she had bad experiences from them, she may never do it again.

Or, if this was something she enjoys, she would obviously try and explain this to any future partners and make sure that they are ok with it. If their partner is into that stuff too, then there probably won't be many issues to worry about.

If she enjoys this stuff, doesn't want to stop and yet doesn't tell her partner, which leads to eventual cheating or something, then that's a dick move.

Communication is the key in any relationship. You date/ go out with someone to learn who they are and determine if they are someone you want to spend the rest of your life with... Before marrying them, not after. You're supposed to figure this out ahead of time.

If they are into this stuff and you're ok with it, so be it.

If they were into it but not any more and you trust them to be telling the truth, so be it.

If you are not into that stuff, if you don't believe they are telling the truth, if you are grossed out by their sexual history... Then don't marry them.

[Asker]

What if they manipulates and lies about thier feelings just to get a committed and trustfull partne as they know if they don't lie then nobody (expept the similar ones who likes polygamy and open relationships) would like to commit their life to them.

[AlphaMale1]

At this stage of my life I would date a woman like this and hopefully she will still want to have MMF sex with me and some other guy. However, because of her past I honestly do not think I could trust her. She may be the most worthy woman of being trusted alive in a relationship. However, if we have a disagreement about something I would always wonder if she went out on a cock hunt for a few hours.

There are women you fuck, women you date and that woman you keep.

[sarahhouse]

Wait, so you think a promiscuous girl can't be a good wife cause she will always want more dick that you can provide? :)
Dude, that's not how it works.

I mean, sure, there are women like that. No doubt.
But if a woman like that actually decides to settle down and get married , I'd like to believe she has "blown off the steam" in years prior to that.

If she actually found a guy she wants to settle down with, I'm sure she's aware that things gotta change drastically.

[Asker]

Settle down? So she will settle down with a person as a provider and act or pretend reversely unlike before just to impress the husband? But how will her body adapt it as practically the habitual actions dont change suddenly. Either it has to be pretended to be has to be something elstothat she is doing hiddenly from husband. Is it so easy to convert from one to another? What if she gets exited as befpre again? So the husband will always have to be in two minds and in fear. Is'nt it

[sarahhouse]

I'm calm , I don't need to settle down, it was wonder in my question not anger :D So you think woman's body becomes attuned to many, many, many dick and therefor can't function without them after woman becomes involved in a monogamous relationship? I strongly disagree, obviously. Lets use simple terms as "sow your wild oats". You do something in your early/mid twenties, maybe even later than that. You enjoy that part of your life but after a while, *IF* you decide to change your lifestyle, things simply change. I think it's very stereotypical and misguided to think a once promiscuous woman can't be a good and faithful wife.

[Asker]

Sorty, I did'nt say about you nor complained. Just enquired. The thing is even if she settles with a guy, what if the partner (inexperienced one) feels as if she is just using him and denies him all such acts saying it was her past and that time she enjoyed those acts with all her exes but now she settle down and does'nt even try anything different then once a week sex? Would'n t the husband feel inadequate, unfulfilled, jeolous, less deserved, etc with her and also if some day if he happen to meet some of her who got more from her without commitment but he will only a a small part of her? Is'nt it human nature and normal feeling? And also what if her exes mocks him

[Jennifer398]

As one of those women. I can tell you I am very open about my sexuralty and my needs to my partners. If we are not on the same page going in we will not be getting married

[tzdc21]

8/10 times they don't cope. Studies show that the more sexual partners a woman has, the higher the likelihood for breakups and divorce.

[OlderGuy965]

She'd probably ask the guy to couple swap or threesome or something. Maybe even ask for a gang bang again

[Asker]

What if the partner refuses to perform such polygamous things? T hen she cheat, lie, divorce?

[OlderGuy965]

It's possible. Every woman is different. Can't really say.