How do straight guys and lesbians feel about dating a bisexual woman?

[vmpr1320]

[hellionthesagereborn]

Honestly, not inclined towards it. To many times have I seen women (on this site in particular) talking about having the urge to be with the opposite gender of their partner. They use it as an excuse to want to cheat or try and open the relationship up to others and that is simply not acceptable so I would generally try to avoid simply because that is yet another level of drama and another source of temptation and stress for her which will weaken the relationship over all. Not saying all bisexual women will cheat only that its another point of temptation.

[SirHac]

I agree with you on this and it kind of explains a fear of dating them that I have

[hellionthesagereborn]

@SirHac Yeah, its not great but at the end of the day dating and relationships are about minimalizing possible future conflict, drama, and trauma and that is an additional factor that could back fire. It may not but the fact that its their does make a person hesitant and will work against the individual.

[torken]

Typical guy mindset here: if she's bi she MIGHT be talked into a 3some.

I'm sure bi gals get super tired of that. And i wouldn't press it too hard because I would respect her. I guess I'm just saying its only a positive in my mind

[vmpr1320]

True. It gets super annoying, especially when you believe in monogamous relationships.

[torken]

So, with you, I'd feel out the waters and then I'd just drop it. I mean, everyone says its more fun in your head than in real life anyway, its just hard not to be curious you know?

[strangytie]

My boyfriend was insecure at first, especially because I was insecure about my sexuality. I was constantly reiterating that I was into women because I was scared that I wasn’t being a good bisexual by “dating straight”. Now it’s something that I just am, and he doesn’t feel scared of it anymore. Means I’m more open to stuff he’s wanted to share with me like his own sexuality that he’d been questioning.

[rskinney]

This is a healthy perspective.

[matt101385]

There's other factors that would be involved in answering that question. For me anyways.

[vmpr1320]

What other factors?

[matt101385]

Would she still want to mess around with girls or would she stay loyal to just him. If she wanted too if pretty positive most normal guy would want to know if they could join. Or since you can mess around with girls then he should be able too also. But everyone's moral standards are different so it would depend on the person.

[vmpr1320]

It would be a monogamous relationship. I just want to hear people’s opinions on how that makes them feel. I know people that are overly jealous because they feel like any gender is competition.

[matt101385]

Yea I'm sure some people for sure would.

[godfatherfan]

I would never date any woman I knew was bisexual. it is not fair since you have twice the choices. But I don't want to deal with her wanting some woman while we are together. one of us loving to fuck a woman is enough.

[SmoMan71]

I think I prefer dating bi, or at least bi curious girls.

[vmpr1320]

Why is that?

[SmoMan71]

Had the best relationships with them up to this point.

[Berethor]

Usually straight guys tend to worry about that less then lesbians, out of belief that what a guy have to offer is worth more, and out of being less jealous about girl-on-girl, as opposed to the girl being with other guy, so guys seeing a girl with a guy relationship being more serious go both ways. But that said, some guys might worry of the possibility of their girl leaving them for other girl.

[MementoMori_]

I'm still trying to decode the question. Need to make up some kind of chart to sort it all out.

[icedragoom]

I don't know I feel like I would be worried about my girl be stolen away from me... But also not apposed to dating a bi girl adds some spice in the bedroom

[zerofuxgiven]

Communication and honesty would be key. Anything that happened without the others consent could be a deal breaker permanently.

[rskinney]

No problem.

[J4Zzi3]

Not like it matters much? As long as another male is not involved

[jeffreyisme]

I'm fine with it

[hotdoggy]

Idc. It would be different and maybe they would be into a threebuns.

[SirHac]

To me it's kind of a turn off meaning I'll be less interested in a romantic relationship with her but I'd still consider dating them

[vmpr1320]

Do you know why it turns you off?

[SirHac]

Probably because they may out of the blue decide she doesn't like guys and wants to be with a girl and I can't really provide the same things she may want from a girl. Also I don't want a open relationship I tend to be territorial with my S. O-s

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I won't date a woman who is a lesbian.

[Mischa7711]

She is a woman. So why not.!

[ThreeSheetsToTheWind]

I'd be fine with it. Maybe we could check out hot girls together. 😂

[hammeronfire]

id date a bi girl

[Kese04]

I feel fine about it.

[raaz1210]

Its good for us we have opportunity to have threesome some day 😝😝

[intjgamer]

I don't care and I have done it before.

[mikey112]

fabulous.