How do u flirt with a girl if u are a girl but the other is not a lesbian like u?

I want to date and fuck this girl cause I'm a lesbian but the girl I like is not a lesbian and I have given her signals like touching her upper thigh and rubbing her arm and touching her like super close to the boobs and I've slapped her ass and she catches me staring at her and I send her vids of me naked she says nice ass and nice Pussy but then she says I'm not a lesbian
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  • She doesn't have to be a lesbian to enjoy someone going down on her. "Straight", "bi" and "lesbian" (and also "asexual") are all possible labels for how she feels IN HER HEAD about what kind of genitals she would like to play with on other people - but letting someone play with hers, letting someone try to give her an orgasm by playing with her tits and pussy, is less about who she prefers to play with, and more about whether or not (and how much) she likes orgasms.

    There are a LOT of women who are not lesbians or bi - they're not attracted to (random) womEn - but who have one special BFF girlfriend who they REALLY ENJOY getting freaky with.

    Tell your friend "I'm not asking you to be lesbian or bi - I'm not asking you to start fantasizing about other women - but I would LOVE IT if you would let me try to make you feel really good!" Don't ask her tpo reciprocate - in fact, if she tries, say "No.. you're not a lesbian, you're not bi, I don't expect you to do that.." Eventually, she WILL say "But, I think I really want to! It's OK, maybe I AM bi."

    And really, the labels don't serve much of a purpose except to enforce societal prejudices by making people feel shame for defying what the herd says is "normal". (When you accept a label, you're actually buying in to the idea that "this is normal, that isn't normal".) People should be able to love who they want, desire whatever kind of genitals they are in the mood for today, and the only label we need for them is "people".

  • You can't change the preferences of someone, and she whas very clear saying that she isn't interested in you.
    I think that it's prety selfish of you part, because she is not lesbian and you just think in what you want.
    Maybe if she was lesbian you could try something, but she's not.
    Like i said, she was very clear with you.

    So give up, let her alone and find a lesbian girl...

Most Helpful Girls

  • So she appreciates the female form but maybe not to the extent that you would like... maybe give it a break for a bit and see if she notices the lack of attention... it's not like you can just come out and make a proposition, hey?

  • I think she's made it clear she's not a lesbian so maybe stop?

  • She's not into you.
    Leave her alone and stop harassing her.

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  • Aww, you shouldn't try to force her if she isn't interested. I know it's hard though when a girl you like isn't les/bi. :/

  • She might be secretly enjoying it but shy. Keep at it. Or try on me lol

    • Ahahahaha thats what I was thinking

  • WTF? really
    she isn't a lesbian so move on.
    if a guy came on to me, and I told him I am not gay, then he keeps coming on to me, he is going to get punched.
    you seriously need to back off.

  • then give up if she's not a lesbian and find a girl who is lesbian or bi :-)

  • Honestly it's probably best to leave her be, don't waste your time with someone who won't love you the same