How do u prepare before anal sex?

My man wants to go back door am trying to get ready. I heard douching is best way?
How do u prepare before anal sex?
I use condoms so who cares
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I use the douche
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I dont do anal
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  • Start with a good diet, you want to be passing soft large healthy stools. This keeps you clean up there. Too hard and you risk micro tears which will sting during sex and too soft/runny will leave a coating of poo inside and obviously you don't want that. I strongly recommend avoiding peanuts or you're in for a bad time.
    Choose a silicone based lube as they don't dry out like water ones. Water ones need to be used in large volumes or they turn sticky.
    The secret to anal is learning how reverse the sphincter so it draws a penis inside. on your own Practice pushing it out like your trying to take a dump, hold as long as you can then totally relax. On the big day GENTLE fingering will help it dilate and relax. Ignore all the 1, 2,3... finger nonsense that just makes it worse.

    • Wow you definitely became an expert on this field. Your man must be lucky to have you.

  • You can't just dive in straight away, there needs to be preparation done beforehand. Plenty of good guides on the internet.

    • I have tried butt plugs wearing one now.

    • All I can say is look for decent guides on the internet. I could go into detail and explain it all but time is wasted on some people here and from past experiences... Of being let down etc. I would rather not. Not your fault.

    • @Karin_Anna looks like you have tried it before did you?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I am a guy and have done anal with a few women. I do not think any did anything special> i have been told having the guy play with you ( fingers up there so it does not hurt as much) can help. One girl who was not an anal virgin when we got together said the first time she was going to try it she used a couple sized dildos at first.

    Main thing YOU ARE IN CONTROL and let him knkow that. There are sersious injuries that can occur. Many women love it but there are also women that get fissues and such. There is one top porn star who does not do anal it surprising since most of the top stars do and some do double or even triple anal. she tried it in her private life and i think an interview said she ended up with anal fissure in the emergency room.

  • For most, just going good before is adequate.

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  • best to clean the outside and inside best you can. make sure you have not been sick with stomach issues lately. avoid foods that might give you stomach issues or indigestion.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/zVxDEUOa6Bw
  • My friends with benefits douches so id recommend it

  • Lube is your friend

  • If it is your first time you will feel the pain anyways. So, you must do it regularly for at least a week of anal to start feeling enjoyment

    • That was my biggest fear thanks for the tip. Will do enjoy it during this week.

    • Don't use anything except your bfs pp

    • No doubt looking to fit on perfectly

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  • Play with her asshole use lube.

  • Use oil to lubricate make it wet with oil because anus doesn't have its own lubrication don't use water for that use oil... it reduces friction also. Thank me later.

  • USE LUBE M8

  • I don't do anal. It's wrong

    • Yet you chose a nickname titled Asshole coincidence? Lol

    • Right?

  • Go to the pharmacy, and buy a fleet enema.

  • Lube her and myself up and go in slowly

  • Don't you have a gay friend to ask 😂🥴

    • Straight people have anal sex why ask gay friends. Most women are bi 😉.

    • Never hear if it, but I knew 3men who like it and came out to be gay after left college lol

    • I don't like it at all it's totally weird and I think must be gays and lady's who like it lol

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  • rimming helps.

    • Definitely

    • kinda proper, anyway.

  • I don't have anal sex.

    • Why?

  • just use plenty of lube

  • Use plenty of lube and practice with smaller things first

    • Sounds good.

    • Try fingers or a small object to start with

  • Always give yourself an enema to clean everything out. So there is no gross regrets.

    • Will do. Lol

  • im gonna fuck a mexican in the ass with my penis till i cum inside his taco bell and sexually turn his rectum into a burrito