How do u prepare before anal sex?

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My man wants to go back door am trying to get ready. I heard douching is best way?

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

Start with a good diet, you want to be passing soft large healthy stools. This keeps you clean up there. Too hard and you risk micro tears which will sting during sex and too soft/runny will leave a coating of poo inside and obviously you don't want that. I strongly recommend avoiding peanuts or you're in for a bad time.
Choose a silicone based lube as they don't dry out like water ones. Water ones need to be used in large volumes or they turn sticky.
The secret to anal is learning how reverse the sphincter so it draws a penis inside. on your own Practice pushing it out like your trying to take a dump, hold as long as you can then totally relax. On the big day GENTLE fingering will help it dilate and relax. Ignore all the 1, 2,3... finger nonsense that just makes it worse.

Karin_Anna · Accepted Answer

You can't just dive in straight away, there needs to be preparation done beforehand. Plenty of good guides on the internet.

bluehen46 · Accepted Answer

I am a guy and have done anal with a few women. I do not think any did anything special> i have been told having the guy play with you ( fingers up there so it does not hurt as much) can help. One girl who was not an anal virgin when we got together said the first time she was going to try it she used a couple sized dildos at first.

Main thing YOU ARE IN CONTROL and let him knkow that. There are sersious injuries that can occur. Many women love it but there are also women that get fissues and such. There is one top porn star who does not do anal it surprising since most of the top stars do and some do double or even triple anal. she tried it in her private life and i think an interview said she ended up with anal fissure in the emergency room.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

For most, just going good before is adequate.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

best to clean the outside and inside best you can. make sure you have not been sick with stomach issues lately. avoid foods that might give you stomach issues or indigestion.

dublin_sexyeyes0 · Answer

My friends with benefits douches so id recommend it

jessicasissy · Answer

Lube is your friend

AmeerX · Answer

If it is your first time you will feel the pain anyways. So, you must do it regularly for at least a week of anal to start feeling enjoyment

Twalli · Answer

Play with her asshole use lube.

SHREYASH007 · Answer

Use oil to lubricate make it wet with oil because anus doesn't have its own lubrication don't use water for that use oil... it reduces friction also. Thank me later.