How do we stop this happening? Is she right that we need more female friends?

[Anonymous]

My bestie and I are part of the Asperger’s community and we have some problems with each man we try to befriend. I don’t really believe any of them are really interested.. they just get lonely and horny. We’re both getting sick of them coming into us and one of them comes onto both of us regularly. How can we stop this happening without being bitches about it? Do we just need more straight female friends, like my bestie says, or sooner or later, are we likely to meet some sensible people?

[SteveSmith1985]

Well wait. I'm a bit mixed-up. Are you saying that guys you try to be FRIENDS with act all horny etc (which... is not how friendships work).

Or do you mean that too many guys are coming up to you two and making advances and you wish they wouldn't?

Well, first... more straight female friends won't help with being approached by guys you wish wouldn't approach you.

Obviously making a straight female friend vs a male friend means that you can be more secure that your friend won't hit on you.

BUT what you need is decent guys. That's the problem. These guys don't actually want your friendship. They agree to be friends in hopes of getting into your pants. That's not a real friend.

So your problem is... you haven't tried to be friends with any guys who ACTUALLY want to be friends. You've found guys who hope to leverage friendship into something sexual/romantic. That's totally different.

You're just choosing the wrong guys. Friends of the opposite sex are awesome. They're so worth it. You would lose out if you only made friends with straight women. You just need decent guys (who are NOT going to approach you. Because they're not hitting on you, and you're just with your friend. They assume you aren't looking for a dude to walk up to you and try to befriend you.)

My other tip. Let's say you find a new guy and you two decide to try to be friends with him. If that's what you want from him. Make that super clear. Tell him you only want to be friends and then TALK ABOUT THIS PROBLEM you've had with OTHER guys you tried to be friends with.

That way, it's the same as telling this guy to his face: "look, we want to be your friend, but if you try for more, we'll drop you like those other guys we don't hang out with anymore"

It lets him know what's up.

So... if he's trying to get into your pants... he's going to drop-off pretty quick as a friend. There's no point in "faking" friendship with you two... if he's going to get booted the first time he makes a move--and he knows it.

But DO keep trying to make some guy friends. The good ones might be few and far-between... but it'll be worth it if you find a solid, good guy. Just make sure there's zero room for error about what wanting to hang out with him means.

[peterrezeeek]

the problem is inside u not them..

[Asker]

If you can’t give me any valuable advice then kindly go away. Thank you.

[peterrezeeek]

ok i can advice u... try to find virgin guy in 18.. he would be horny and hard to fuck girls

[Asker]

That’s not advice and I don’t want some pimply faced adolescent virgin.

[Asker]

Now take the hint and bugger off.

[peterrezeeek]

now can u sk my d**k?

[Asker]

No. You’ll have to use your own hand. It’s probably so small that you won’t be able to hold it.

[Asker]

Now, I have no wish to further engage with this conversation. If you’d bugger off, that would be great.

[peterrezeeek]

I won't explode, but I will think of your vagina and your mother's vagina... I will suggest that you come to my house and try it yourself, if you don't get pregnant I will be satisfied with your words... and if it is less than 7 inches long also I am satisfied so shut up and don't forget to bring your mom for the post-sex cleanup

[Asker]

You’ll just have to explode on your own. Not even the world’s filthiest brothels would have you.

[peterrezeeek]

i, d have u on my bed and i, ll let ur mom judge if am a man with a good couck of not.. i, ll breath play you with a deep through... fk off

[Asker]

Learn how to spell next time.

[Asker]

I’m not shocked. You just sound like a creepy little pervert.

[peterrezeeek]

shut up mother f*cker

[peterrezeeek]

suck my di*k

[Asker]

Reported.

[peterrezeeek]

wow bad looser 😂😂😂😂 go sleep..