How do you become interesting to opposite sex?

In case your homosexual, same sex for ya guys.


What does it take for the opposite gender, the uncharted territory, to say : "god, you're quite something".

I've been told so, interestingly first by a cute male teach than anyone else but I couldn't tell.

If you've been told too, share your story! If not, follow the question.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm just who I am. I don't change or wear act differently around different groups of people. What you see is what you get, take it leave it.

    I don't go with the crowd. I have my own goals and direction in life. I dictate my own life, not society.

    I dress well with clothes that fit and give a sense of my personality. That by itself does gain some attention.

    I'm honest and authentic with people. If you met me last year at a business meeting and caught up with me yesterday, I'm the same. Just more stories and jokes to tell.

    The last thing is I pay attention. I listen and the people I talk to have my full attention. If they really peak my interest, I want to find out more about them.

    Many of the opposite sex like those things about me. If it's not for them. I'm probably not right for them either.

  • Being physically attractive is helpful, but we all know that. I think probably one of the biggest things that has made me attractive to women over the years is social status. When I’m at a party and many people are seeking my attention, calling me over, laughing with me, etc.: women are going to notice that and also seek my attention. Also, the fact that my name is said often keeps me on their mind. This also happens when I take women to visit with my family, they see the connections and bonds that I have with my family members, and that makes me more tractive I believe. This happens everywhere, you could be at work as well. Basically, when lots of people think highly of you, someone new like a perspective romantic partner, is probably going to go along with what everyone else is saying/thinking/showing by their actions.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Obviously taking care of yourself and good hygiene really help. But also I have become aware of just how much people like how genuinely nice I am. I do my best to make people feel cared for, and many men have told me that it's my personality that they are attracted to most. They like that I'm not a bitch, and someone they truly enjoy hanging out with.

    Confidence in who you are is an overall attractive trait to have also. Know that you can do your thing and enjoy life, and people will see you and desire to join you in the fun you're having.

  • Im just my goofy, corny, clumsy, talkative self. Most love it. I appear to be the mos interesting to those who share similar beliefs/goals/interests/experiences. You have to find the group you fit in with. Thats who will find you the most interesting

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  • Be yourself. Yes there is something very special about you that is so very sexy and Hot

  • Listen to YMCA

    • Lol i thought you were saying how can people became interested in the opposite sex lol 😂 sorry for my shit joke

  • Deception is one thing. Self seception is something else. Trying to "make" yourself do or be anything is an exercise in futility.

  • Be a good person, share the same interests, have them open up to you

  • Honestly I have no idea.

    I've always just been me and nothing but that.

  • The same way as the young Spanish mattador became interesting to Lady Ashley in Sun Also Rises.

  • For women it’s quite simple, just be pretty and don’t be a bitch.


    For men it’s harder. Women tend to be attracted to men with high social or wealth status

  • My experience says be in shape, have cool hobbies.

  • For me if a women is intelligent, meaning they think for themselves and are also attractive then she's a catch.

  • Wear short pleated skirts

  • if you like doing new things... people who do the SAME THING OVER AND OVER, are boring, and UNINTERESTING

  • Stop caring.

  • By hanging around with people of the opposite sex who have the same likes you do. If you enjoy sex, get friends with benefits AND you will always have someone to fuck. I enjoy this life. I I love fucking, I love to give women multiple orgasms, and thoroughly enjoy cumming.

  • I’ve been told I have a cute butt, and I’m very hot!

  • If I knew, I would be doing better than I am

  • Because of their sexy bodies..