How do you bench press a girl without thinking sexually?

Before I write the subject I'm fine with anyone to pm in case someone find this awkward subject to discuss there and want to explain it in private.

Hopefully I don't sound dumb or misjudge this thing called bench press, I simply want to understand it.

Is this considered to be sexual or I'm overthinking? My friend wanted to bench press me but it looked awkward and I got embarrased so i told him I will think about it and leave it for next time.

I want to know how could someone bench press a girl? Is there any specific way to do that? And is it normal thing for boys or it's just me who is not understanding it? Sorry for asking too mant questions in one post but I'm confused and it's something I'm not sure about , I have more questions but I didn't write it because it will be a lot.
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  • Depending where he puts his hands. Traditional bench press, one hand would be on your chest, and one between your legs and I'm sure he's mentally aware of that, as you are probably lol. But it is possible to avoid those "sensitive" areas. Like instead of between your legs, using your legs, but it is harder to do the bench press and keep you balanced that way. But it also depends on the guy and your relationship with him and why he's bench pressing you and the situation. It's possible for it not to be sexual. But at the same time, he'll be aware of where his hands are, how could he not be?

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  • He's likely is using it as an excuse to put his hands anywhere he wants to lift you, probably your crotch, butt, and boobs. It's not a normal thing for most guys to ask. If you're not interested in having someone touch you like that tell him to find someone else to lift.

    • I'm not understanding what's the bench press move exactly, why does he need to put his hands on the area you mentioned?

    • Ask him to prove to you that he can lift something that weighs at least the same as you so you know he is strong enough to lift you and won't drop you. If he can, have him lift you with you on your back and only allow him to touch the back of your thighs and your back when he's lifting you. He may need help from a couple of other people to get you into that position before he tries to life you.

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  • He will probably have his hand between your legs so yeah it’s sexual

    • I have no clue about how it's done so i don't know what you mean exactly, why would he put his hand between my legs?

    • To lift you About a 90% chance this guy wants to bench press you cause it turns him on and he gets to touch your pussy when he lifts you

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  • Thinking about it off the top of my head, I'd imagine it would be. Women don't have handles, after all (unless you've all been REALLY busy while I wasn't looking), so he'd have to place his hands on your centers of weight (no, Mr. Wannabe-Higgs, it's not mass; it's WEIGHT), which would probably be your chest and your crotch. Or your upper back and your butt, if you're facing up. I don't think it'd work very well sideways.

  • Prolly not thinking sexual I wouldn't be. But he probably will have his hand on your ass or crotch and chest so it could be... I don't know
    Maybe he is looking for a good excuse to feel you up? Or maybe he just wants to show off I don't know...

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  • its where they pump iron but instead of iron you, so basically I don't know if its a sexual thing, dom thing or simply just a show off thing but tbh it can go many ways