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How do you control your sexual needs?

I'm having trouble controlling my sexual needs because of a certain person I just reconnected with. A few years back there was this guy who umm fingered me. Felt amazing (: but now I can't stop thinking what to do now that he lives around town. But I want to see him and if there's this vibe between us when we hang out. So in my spare time I read my nook books to take my mind off of this but it won't work what would u guys do? I know I'm all over the place but do you understand what I'm talking about?
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Guys can you tell me what is the problem with us girls being a tad clingy?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No. You are female you can just have sex whenever you want with whoever you want also you can do it to yourself. If you need it more than maybe in the morning and in the evening and it is getting dysfunctional like 5 times a day you need to more self-control, like meditation or practicing self-control by fasting, martial arts or something there are a lot of ways it is very feasible to get from X times a day to just 1-2 times a day if you don't have some hormonal disorder, like excess sex hormones or something which make you super horny all the time.

    • Also, don't stick like objects into your vagina and leave them there the whole day believing it would provide relief it actually just keeps you horny. Sex is designed to be more like an on/off thing it doesn't really go well with something in between only messes you up in weird ways teach yourself when you have sex and which circumstances lead to it.

    • Ehhh I've had sex b4! Ok just been a while until this guy came back telling me wanna hang out and then the past will come back once we hang out and lead to were we left off. I hate being hurt by men I never found the right person. I just been sorry I'm all over the place.

  • nook book? and what's the problem. he's a guy. just meet up with him, flirt, have fun, hook up, before you know it that finger of his will be a penis of his going in you which will feel 100x as good. don't let your pride get in the way. pride is overrated.

    • Ok nook books I read a lot. I thought those romance novels and all jus sorta help bit I want the real deal I just hate how they are always right. And that they know what to write about for what kind of relationship we want and all.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, if you're asking me what I do... I masturbate a lot, for obvious reasons, haha! Play time is great, it's relaxing, sexy, it's a stress reliever, improves my mood...

    For you... I'd ask him out. Not JUST to have sex with him, of course, but if you like him, get together!

    • thanks

  • By having sex. If i can't do that then it's masturbation. Also do hobbies/physical activities to distract self.

  • nook books awh <333

    I don't know. Read Epictetus.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't have to, women do that for me.

  • Why not just hook up with him

  • Masturbate?
    Sex toys?

  • Do it yourself

  • i would date him and have sex

    • Some times I wish it were me and you

    • Huh?

    • I'm saying that to bh6676r942

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