How do you deal with having slutty daughters? Do you try to change them or accept it and just ensure they're being safe?

My daughters are quite outgoing and fairly promiscuous. As a single father, it can be hard to track everything they're doing and I just want to make sure they're safe. They seem very happy doing what they're doing but I worry about them sometimes.

For the parents out there, what have you done in this situation?

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  • Let me offer some general guidance on how to approach this situation man.

    First and foremost, it's important to remember that your daughters are adults who are capable of making their own decisions about their sexuality and relationships. It's not your place to judge or shame them for their choices, but rather to support and guide them in making safe and healthy decisions.

    It's important to have open and honest conversations with your daughters about sex, relationships, and safe sexual practices. Encourage them to use protection and to get regular testing for sexually transmitted infections. Let them know that they can come to you for support and guidance without fear of judgment or punishment.

    It's also important to help your daughters build a strong sense of self-worth and self-respect, regardless of their sexual behavior. Encourage them to pursue their passions and hobbies, and to build healthy relationships based on mutual respect and understanding.

    If you're feeling overwhelmed or uncertain about how to approach this situation, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and strategies for navigating complex family dynamics. They can help you develop a plan for supporting your daughters while also prioritizing your own emotional well-being.

    • Except for the first line, chatGPT wrote this too.

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  • I have two daughters, they are still young, but I think I can empathize with your position as a father. I know my kids are going to grow up and go out there and do things I don't approve of, and make mistakes. As a father, you can't change that, but you don't need to blanketly accept everything either.

    You can talk to her about safety, even though we all know she's gonna belch at it, roll her eyes and call it cringe, but when the moment comes she's gonna remember what you said because you are the only parent she has, and you do mean a lot to her, even if she doesn't want to admit it.

    Second thing I would do is to provide a safe haven for her. When she make mistakes and is down on life, she can come back to you to recuperate. That's about the most important things I can think of for a father.

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  • Lack of a good education, passive behavior and laxism in taking problems seriously will obviously lead to such problem children.

    A single parent does not have it easy but failure to set strict rules with social media and other negative outside influence will take a toll on anyone that has a weak character and is easily influenceable.

    Right now, there is not much you can do but observe and pray that they will remain safe. You are not mentioning their ages but given yours, I would say that they are no longer children and that by now, you have lost all control over them.

    It is too late now do do anything to correct this situation and you can only hope that they will remain on the right track, although being slutty is already a lost case. All you can hope is that they are not doing drugs but even that is probably too late to correct.

    The only thing you can do now is be supportive and accept that society has corrupted them. They will probably need all the paternal support they can if they ever need you.

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  • How do you deal with having a son who is good with the girls/ a playboy? Do you try to change them or accept it and just ensure they are being safe?

    I would make sure to know what they are doing so they can keep them safe because, I can't always be where they are. I would try to be a safespace for them if they ever need it. So yes try to keep them safe knowing that I can't make decisions for them.

    • Thank you for the advice.

    • Dont take that as perfect advice. its what I would try to do. I was never in that situation, I dont even have a child but it what my parents did and in hindsight I really appreciated it.

    • I've been teaching them how to be safe, what situations to avoid, and everything else that has come to mind. It can be hard at times.

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  • If they are teens/adults it's best to leave them alone and not even take notice to this. Saying something will make them want to act even more slutty

  • the work should've been done long before they became adults or even teens depending on when they started exhibiting such behavior

    this would mean knowing them very well from the music they like to listen e. g. Cardi B or the TV shows they like to watch e. g. Keeping Up with the Kardashians etc. and monitoring accordingly

  • First of all safety and secondly gave them freedom but also teach them life has consequences that stains ur reputation

  • I haven't been in that situation as a parent, but they live under your roof and should follow your rules.

  • Best i can tell u is 2 make sure they use birth control. Reason being u have got 2 love them. Along with trying 2 give them helpful advice. Cause young girls are going 2 do what they want. Trying 2 stop them will only make them mad at u. Good luck

  • I would kick them out of my house.

  • my parents just accepted it

  • Teach them the value of safe sex

  • Where did they learn this behavior from?

    • I'm not really sure. Probably social media or friends.

    • Do you think if that's what social media is teaching, that everyone would learn the same lesson?

  • How old are your daughters? That makes a big difference in terms of what you can and should do.

  • Teach them to be safe

    • That's what I've been doing as well. Thank you for the input!

    • Tell them you love and support them

  • Do you have daughters?