Guys, How do you feel about taking a girls virginity?

I'm just curious what your experiences were

0 3

Superb Opinion

  • I don't like the term "taking" or "losing" as they relate to virginity, but that's my personal quibble.

    I've had sex with 13 girls in my life. 5 were virgins and of the five the first was when I lost my virginity also.

    The four with whom I wasn't a virgin, I don't know that I thought a lot about it. We were all teenagers. It wasn't a neon sign that screamed "she's a virgin" and I attached a gigantic amount of anything to. I did try to help them enjoy sex and in each case we did it again so the experiences were good.

    I think if I were to have sex with a virgin now I'd approach it much more deliberately with her pleasure and experience in mind.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I have empathy and care, I feel for her. never did...

    I don't take things, I'm not a thief. I give things...

    Some think very different... they are selfish. It's perceived as strength and power, but it's usually internal corruption.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Guys Said

(23)
  • If married then no problem. Otherwise, I would have issues stealing the best asset she has to ever become a Wifey to a good man.

  • I would only date someone who would eventually marry me and if she wants to loose virginity to me, that means she sees something long term and i am gonna marry her

  • Well, most women in a poll said the experience was unpleasant/discomforting. So, due to knowing this, id take my time with a virgin and esp foreplay with her

  • I've always wanted to but haven't had the chance yet

  • I have... just last May. I had only had sex one time before with a previous girlfriend so I was not too experienced also. We used a condom of course and we took it very slow. She seemed to not have any pain but she did not have an orgasm either. But it was an honor being her first. My orgasm was great and we ended up having sex on and off for the next few weeks till high school ended.

  • I'm not particularly looking forward to it, but I suppose we'll get through it. All I know is I certainly don't want to rush anything. If she shows any hesitation whatsoever, I'm stopping. No way in hell I'm going to make our first time unpleasant.

  • I have not done so, but in the right situation I would not have an issue with it.

  • Never have, which is odd considering my body count.

  • I like it. I am always honored to do so. I am always gentle , take my time, and try to make it special for her by attending to her needs.

  • never had that to do

  • Show more from Guys (13)