How do you feel about the chastity penis cage?

I think its a great idea to prevent your partner from cheating. 😊
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  • Funny story - actually not so funny, but it happened. My girlfriend and I have a great sex life. It tends to be very raw and primal. Not in BDSM "chains and whips" sense, but in a very animal way, with licking and even a bit of biting and scratching. I tend to be the alpha male and she the submissive female.

    So, some years back, my girlfriend - who likes to joke that I am controlled by my penis - bet me that I could not control myself if I could not have sex nor pleasure myself. To me, that sounded like no problem and so I took the bet and I put on a chastity cage and she got the key.

    For a while, it was no problem. It was a little distracting if I got an erection and a I sleep in the nude next to my girlfriend it could be... er... frustrating. However, on the whole, hardly a problem.

    Then as time wore on - this went on for about 9 months (!!) - I found myself getting easily distracted. I began to have more sexual fantasies in the middle of the day. I would try to play with myself and would get incredibly frustrated. I would snap at the slightest thing and was highly irritable. For no reason I would cry - tears running down my cheeks.

    As things went along I became - tough old alpha male that I thought that I was - increasingly obedient to my girlfriend. I would do anything just on the off chance that she might reward me with sex. I was desperate for it. Seeing her naked - or any woman naked - was wildly frustrating.

    (In fairness, my girlfriend said it was the hardest 9 months in her life - and we have had three children. She would also get frustrated and she said she began to know - something that she claims she does not pay that much attention to - exactly when she was ovulating because her sex drive went off the charts. The only difference was that she could masturbate while I was helpless. Reduced - and I only say this partly in jest - to a miserable quivering, if sometimes irritable, heap.)

    Frankly, if you had told me that was how I would feel I would have laughed and thought it was a fiction story. However, I really became emotional and my skin became hyper-sensitive to physical contact. Just to feel my gfd's naked skin against mine was literally cause me to cum all over myself.

    There are studies that show that the human male needs sex. Not in the sense of needing food or water. Though studies various as to how often and somewhat by the individual, research shows that men who do not get sex regularly are more aggressive, more prone to violence and more likely to become ill and die earlier than men who have sex on a regular basis. (There is also some suggestion that this may be the evolutionary basis for homosexuality which, in strictly Darwinian terms makes no sense. No perpetuation of the species, no survival.)

    Frankly, for about 9 months, I was living proof of the research. I never would have believed it, but there it is. Suffice to say, if you are trying to reduce your boyfriend to a helpless quivering obedient mate, eager to do your every bidding just so that he can get sexual relief, you are on the right track.

    • Wow, that is quite the story! I've always been interested in chastity, and orgasm denial, but never had any experience like that at all!

    • @edmcuck Yeah, it was kind of a wild. I don't want to overstate. On any given day things were manageable. However, overall, I found myself being easily distracted, irritable, emotional. I can remember doing anything to please my just in the hope that she would have sex with me. It also got to a point where I was begging her to take the thing off and let me masturbate. She stuck by her guns and I thought I was going to lose my mind. Suffice to say, not sure every guy would react as strongly as I did, but I don't recommend it. For sure would I not want to repeat the experience.

    • 9 months is a very long time.😰 I wouldn't torture you that much. I was thinking about keeping the key until he gets home. I don't want him cheating on me. 😏

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  • this shit won't come anywhere near my dick. that's how i feel about it.

    • relationships are about trust and if you can't trust me, then what are you doing in my life?

    • That's true but sometimes you can't let go because you love that person so much😥

    • well if they don't love you back and go to fuck other chicks, you have no choice but to let go. and if you don't do it, you're wrong. that's how it is.

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  • The best way to prevent your partner from cheating is giving him/her so much love that he/she fails to think about having someone else on the bed.

    I hate the very idea of chastity penis cage as duplicate or master keys are made with a snap of fingers by the professionals. Is it right to put a cage inside your panty to prevent you from cheating.

    Imprison him/her in your heart's cage - these are all bullshit stuffs. It shows that there is a complete lack of trust.

  • read your bible and talk to God

    • Why this answer?

    • I stopped reading fairy tales and talking to imaginary friends at puberty.

  • Some guys are into that

  • The concept of it doesn't bother me and what two consenting adults do is their business as long as it doesn't hurt other people, but a chastity cage can cause injury if an erection occurs and we do not have control over that really - especially during sleep.

    • Do men get erection in their sleep?😯

    • Have you never heard of morning wood

    • Yes all the time. Even men like me who have ED get boners while sleeping.

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  • I feel like it's a bit much. If you can't trust your partner so much that you have to put them into chastity, then you shouldn't be together.

  • That is a perverted piece of equipment only used in sex play. It is not , or has it ever been, meant as a tool to prevent cheating. I feel for it, the same as I think of your thesis- flat out ridiculous.😎

  • My wife and I are in a cuckold marriage and she keeps my little dick locked in chastity. It's gets to keep locked up if she so desires.

    • That is awesome! I hope to get there one day too, cuckold and locked in chastity!

    • @edmcuck I think it really is better for us.

    • Yeah, I would definitely agree!

  • I'd see it as an invitation to prove my inventiveness.
    You'd achieve right the opposite of what you intend to.
    Greetings from 'Houdini'

  • It's a form of humiliation and control. On one hand, the man can't experience any sexual pleasure, even if he is aroused all the time. On the other, he can't cheat because his partner is the only person who can let him out.
    I think it's stupid. Cuckolds that enjoy humiliation wear it.

    • I think it's a good thing :)

    • To prevent cheating. I got that. If you need that to prevent him from cheating, then you shouldn't be with him. Besides, what is to stop you from cheating on him or having any kind of sexual pleasure? If you want a cuckold, then you have no reason for this in the first place.

    • I don't want a cuckold and I would never cheat. I'll never get any satisfaction out of cheating. I put more meaning into sex and I feel like this will protect my mental or emotional well being.

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  • Only if he's a gaylord

  • I think it's a great way to get your partner to leave you.

  • It's for gays

  • Loll, I’d never wear one.

  • Sounds interesting

  • I honestly love being locked in chastity!! My longest time locked was for 3 months straight 😊 I would prefer to be locked permanently or unless my partner wants it free for some reason. For me, the smaller the cage the better.

    • How did you survive?😳

    • Lol.. it was actually pretty easy.. I just wish I had a better cage.. the one I had pinched real bad when I got morning wood.

    • Would you do it for so long again?

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  • Definitely

  • I'm submissive so I'd be down lol

  • It works for that but it can also be used for fun

  • You're free to lock me in ;)

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