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  • Nature has designed sex – penetrative sex most pleasant and enjoyable, but nature has not designed or made condoms – it is men’s invention. I have never enjoyed sex with condom, I on pill. I had started it just few days before our marriage after discussions with my husband and on advice of my family doctor. We had searched many things on net together – about first time sex and sex with and without protection. I think pill is the only option to enjoy sex most naturally and for ultimate pleasure of intimacy, if you are planning for a child in future and tubectomy if you do not plan for a child in future. Withdrawal kills the mood at climax – the most enjoyable moments. Being traditional Indian, any sexual activity outside marriage is strictly prohibited in our culture and society. Our marriage is strictly monogamous – and so we need not to fear for STD’s usually. So we did not have to think about protection from STD’s with condom all the time. It is really most enjoyable, especially when he is slowly moving in and out. His foreskin helps him to last longer and deep pleasure for me. And the moment he is about to reach climax – about to finish, he push it in me deep with full pressure and shower of his cum make me orgasm multiple. He never pulls out after finishing soon, and occasionally we go for second round without pulling him out. It is super smooth because of natural lubricant he has injected in me and we last much longer enjoying each other.

    Every woman has her individual priority; Condom obstructs me from getting the actual skin to skin romance, and exchange of bonding hormones. My husband too never liked idea of using condoms. As he slid in, he can feel my wetness and I feel him superman of my dreams, which I am sure no one can feel using condom. Sex is always far better without it.

    Some of my friends (girls) during were enjoying sex almost regularly – using condom when we were studying in university and two of them were keeping them in their purse for this purpose. When I talk to them in kitty party about sex with condom and without condom, they said without any hesitation – sex without condom is thousand time better than with it. They said, without a condom there is more natural friction as condoms are lubricated, so without a condom and not using lube there is a much better feeling. All of them said the sensation of his skin sliding as he penetrates them is far better than the sensations of the ribbed or dotted condoms. Husband of one girl had condom-less sex far lesser times, only when they were planning to have a baby, and it worked twice within a month too. But all of them prefer to use it to avoid consequences.

    I always feel sex good with my husband, and Good Sex is Always Good Sex because of our love, intimacy and commitment to each other.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It wasn't an issue for me in the past because I was with the same man for twenty years and after our second daughter was born, I got a tubal ligation...
    These days, the way people think it's okay to have multiple sex partners at once and think they don't have to disclose that to their sexual partners, I wouldn't have unprotected sex until I know I can absolutely trust they're having sex with just me and noone else and that they're STD free. It's not just that people are so casual about casual sex, they're way too casual about unprotected sex..

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  • Unprotected, as in she's not on the pill or any form of birth control? It's a horrible idea unless the two want to have babies.

    STDs are also a concern. That's why it's important to know your partners character and possibly get tested for STDs before having sex with them the first time.

    I will say that sex with a condom is only partial sex. I would never date a girl who insisted that I wear one. Every girlfriend I ever had was on the pill and we engaged in amazing, unlimited, uninhibited sex.

  • I have to say, that when I was in my 20s' and 30's, I most normally had unprotected sex, but was not so stupid as to ejaculate in a girl, unless she indicated that it was okay to do it, i. e., she was on birth control. I did use condoms, when asked.

    The problem was with STD's, Aids, and any other thing that happened to be floating around. A girl did tell me one time, that she preferred "skin-on-skin" fucking.

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  • Oh my gosh it's so much better than with a condom. I can't get pregnant, so the sex is so much better and I really enjoy getting cum in. Guys seem to love it too and I'm clean, so no downsides.
    Know the risks and it's great. Guys, always make sure 100% it's what the girls want. And they're safe from pregnancy.

    • @vanessasession nothing better than raw sex and finishing inside a girl

  • I like it.
    I'm cautious of it.
    I plan around it.

    Normally when I start dating a guy I asked him to get a STD screening with me. We both verify we clean within the month and then we go commando so to speak.
    This is all planned, I have an IUD so the only thing I'm really worried about is STDs. Which leads me to promiscuity, if we are not exclusive I need regular checks for STDs and if we are exclusive I let him know should he fk up, I won't be mad at the action itself, but if he hides it from me and lies to me by agreeing now to tell me always... our relationship will be forever factured because that's something very very serious to me, and my health.

  • Assuming no birth control of any sort. Great if you're married and ready to have children. Otherwise it is foolhardy.

  • Only with someone you really know and trust... but its always feels better without condoms.

  • That is the one thing I'm waiting until I'm married for.

    • Sex after marriage is amazing because it's done with lots of love and between a married couple who are now a family and got united and blessed by god!

  • Not so good, I’m not trying to get pregnant.

    • Or diseases. Trust the guy, make sure he is checked for diseases, then be on birth control yourself.

    • This is good advice. I am on the pill and I do think I would rather avoid a disease, doesn’t sound like fun.

  • Very risky. Be prepared for consequences.

  • HIV and unwanted pregnancy.

  • In a monogamous relationship I see no problems. I don’t use condoms because of this and she will go off the pill when we want a kid (soon!)

  • It feels great. Little scary at times evergreen in the pill

    • It does feel great, but you do not want diseases or pregnancy. Do it with someone you trust who has been checked for diseases and be on birth control. The enjoy!

    • Oh of course. Only person allowed to do that is my partner

    • @sirenboobzilla yeah the feeling is much better without the condom I think too. I think your very hot dm me sometimes and lets talk the dirty details

  • Great fun, very erotic, but a huge amount of risk if it is not with a long term partner who you trust 100%.

  • Considering I'm Fertile Mertle and my husband is Potent Pete, we use protection.

  • Well I didn't know we could do that I always had somebody standing guard at the door need to be protected Note 8 somebody walks in

  • In my opinion, you shouldn't be doing it unless you're ready to start a family. Period.

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  • Always a bad idea unless you're prepared and willing to be a parent. Not saying it will definitely happen but if you're going unprotected it's something you need to be prepared for; physically, mentally, emotionally and financially.

  • I only sleep with the man I am fully committed to, so for me it's not a problem. I would rather have unprotected sex skin to skin.

    • Wonderful answer by miss alyssa rapunzel 😌 The beauty of sex between a married couple cannot be explained by words 😊

    • @TonyMetal___86 Thanks and I agree!

  • It's never a good idea. I always make sure I'm properly attired in my suit of armour, and have my sword ready nearby.

  • It's so much better

  • If I'm in a commited monogamous relationship then its definitely prefered as long as there is another form of birth control being used. Outside of that with casual sex and my fwbs I always bag it up, no exceptions.

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