How do you feel about your partner's past sex life?

Question

Is it irrelevant? Does it bother you? Does it excite you?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

It's irrelevant. I've never asked about it. I don't care to dredge up stories about my exes, either. I had lots of girlfriends before I got married. I don't regret that at all.

All my girlfriends, including my wife, had partners before me. That's fine because I was never interested in virgins.

I admire people who went out and seized life, made mistakes and gained wisdom through experience. I don't admire people people who are inhibited, shrink from experience, and put off life while they wait for an imaginary Disney movie happy ending, complete with musical sound track.

I have a low opinion about people who are worried about their partner's "body count".

PositiveNote · Accepted Answer

Good question. When I was younger, I would put women in classes of how many guys she had been with. Now older, experienced, and (hopefully) sexually mature, I don't want to hear about past hookups and such. It's the present that counts.

Shreya_bj_Shiry · Accepted Answer

I don't care about his past sex life. I am glad they had good experience in sex and about how to satisfy women before meeting me.

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Has no bearing on anything to me. He is with me now. Why dwell on something that will never change?

loves2learn · Answer

Irrelevant. He and I were virgins. Thought we did both fool around with others before we met.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I don’t care, not something I ever ask about.

juliammm · Answer

it is way not as exciting as what we are having together :)

DonkeyDan · Answer

I don't mind talking about it to my partners, sometimes their stories of past encounters turn me on.

RealMarek · Answer

It is not relevant to me. What is relevant is who she is today.

exitseven · Answer

I would like to say that it is in the past but if she had a really big body count I might have pause.

humanearth · Answer

irrelevant everyone has a past. What I care about is now and future they are with me

Browneye57 · Answer

It's relevant, but figure it's none of your fucking business.  No guy worth his salt wants a bimbo fresh off the cock-carousel.

dudeinohio · Answer

irrelevant

keirl · Answer

Anyone that says ot doesn't bother them lie

abc--123 · Answer

It's irrelevant.

CubaPirate · Answer

None of my business tbh

Seppel · Answer

Irrelevant

Zygum · Answer

No problem, if she is sincere

Fitness56 · Answer

Never asked her

KayMaish · Answer

Sadly it’s only irrelevant just abit when it gives me hints of what he’s into. Other than that I don’t care or wanna know what he did with her/others.