How do you feel if a girl starts rubbing her clitoris during sex?

You're giving her top notch dick action, playing that pussy like a violin when suddenly she reaches down and starts stimulating her her clitoris.

Do you find this arousing or do you take it as meaning your dick skills aren't good enough?
Do you see it as complimenting your performance or is she saying for fuck sake I'll do it myself?
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  • Shit, if she ain't... then I will! Lol

    Very rare, have I (not) been able to get a woman to cum. Which would be due to that exact willingness, to go the extra mile. When I first started having sex, obviously I wasn't ready to star in porn.

    Which bothered me..

    Nothing to do with size but lasting was an issue. Or at least, I assumed it was. I could never really figure if out. As sometimes, the girl certainly seemed to enjoy themself... but others, not so much. It's the fact I couldn't stand knowing that, that made me take the interest I did in it. I'm just one of those, "aim to please" types, I guess, lol.

    So I would ask a lot of questions, (not) during sex... at least nothing too thought provoking. But yeh, if she was open to talking about the things she likes, I was more then willing to commit them to memory.

    Which is why, after quite a few satisfied customers... I (thought) I was now ready for the "big leagues", lol. When telling a 36 year old stripper, I was more then capable of showing her a good time in the sack.. I was 18, ugg... I failed miserably.

    First and foremost though, 36 or not... she was smokin! So yeh, I got a little carried away, lol. Before my pathetic little run was over though, she (did) see my potential. Great kisser, more then willing to rub and tease, turning them to Jello.. and horny as hell! Which would be why she allowed me to go home with her, to begin with.

    Anyway, (that's) when she did it..

    Reached over into the end table, by her bed and pulled out a vibrator, to finish what I started. Not gonna lie, my innitial thoughts when seeing this were, "where's the closest window"... to jump out of. Which I think she could see in my face. So rather then ignoring that and finishing herself anyway, she asked if I ever played with one... I said, no.

    I'll spare ya the gory details of that and the many more to come afterward but she was the best thing that ever happened to my sexlife. What (could) have been a huge confidence deflator, ended up being the first of quite a few lessons about things one should do, to get (pretty much) any girl to cum.

    Cause I can't say I never failed again after that but certainly an above average percentage rating. Given most of the sexual romps I had after that were one and done's, 80-90% being satisfied, certainly wasn't something to be hang'n my head about. Let alone, if I had the opportunity to make up for it, another time or ten, lol... I'm fairly sure, I could have gotten far closer to the 100% mark.

    As long as ya go into this knowing, it's (just) sex, leaving feelings at the door.. I'd HIGHLY recommend a cougar for any young guy out there, looking to sharpen their skills. Cause I guarantee, there will be someone, if not multiple someone's... that are gonna owe that cougar a resounding "THANK YOU!" down the line, lol. Not to mention, you'll both be at your sexual peaks, too!

    I'm kinda surprised match-ups like that, don't occur more often, really. I do get the whole "tabboo" aspect of it, as well but personally, I could care less what others think of me.

    ... that is just (me), though.

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  • I remember very early on thinking that it meant I wasn't doing enough/doing it right, but I've long since come to understand that it's just her wanting to add some additional stimulation - often because what's already happening has made her crazy for an orgasm and she just can't wait, but also, occasionally, if she's having a rough day and needs a little extra to get across the finish line.

    Anyway, I've been fine with it for a long time, but with most women, it hasn't been a regular thing - just something they occasionally do.

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  • You should take it as a complement. When the dick is too big the clit needs to be rubbed so that the vag hole can extend in order to fit your big ass dick.

    • Does that really work?

    • Consult redtube. That's how I found out Why?

    • Lmao ty I was just curious

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  • "Playing the pussy like a violin." ROFL Now that's some good imagery! Kudos.

    I wouldn't mind at all. Even if I'm all the way up in her stomach and whipping her pussy like batter, if she can get something extra by flogging her nub I'm all for it. I want her to explode in bucking, quivering, unendurable orgasm and try to rip my cock off with her pulsating pussy grip.

  • I mean I see it as arousing plus it is an understanding that the woman needs more clitoral stimulation and depending on the position I may not be able to give it to her so she can aide in the overall pleasure and have a more intense organized. There is nothing wrong with that.

  • I don't mind so long as she cums.

  • She is sayingI'M COMING I'M COMING I'M COMING I'M COMING OoooOHhhhIMCUMMMMMMM

  • Don't stop it was just getting good

  • I find it arousing and usually give her a vibrator for that purpose

  • It feels good how is that a problem? Thats like asking women how they feel when they jack themselves off after they pull out... Do women actually mind that?

  • Complimenting my stroke.
    Whatever gets her off.
    I'm not above using toys in the bedroom either.

  • I love it if she 'massages' her clitoris while I'm thrusting my hard dick inside her sexually aroused vagina @purplepoppy because it will make the orgasm my dick (and earlier foreplay) will give her so much more intensely pleasurable for her -

    - and that absolutely enhances the sexual sensations I feel !! And when we orgasm together, the sexual pleasure for both of us is truly mind-blowing 🍑🍆

  • i would find it a serious turn on, and would encourage me to keep going :P

  • Hell NO!
    I like distribution of work.
    More girls need to show that they are having a good time.

  • It's complementing (not complimenting) my performance and belping her orgasm during intercourse. I don't feel threatened by it.

  • I feel like she's trying to help out. Or, at least, get the most out of her experience.

    See, i know where her clit is. I also know i can't reach it through regular fucking. I mean, even though i can displace the same amount of water as a 3 lb coffee can, i just can't bang up against her clit while engaged in vaginal intercourse.

  • typically means she is really close but can't seem to finish. not ever girl can orgasm from just penetration sex alone. sometimes clit stimulation is required to help a girl finish. also times when stimulating other parts of a girls body could help. which is why it is wise to multitask her different zones. to increase her level of overall pleasure if your able.

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  • Usually I already have a hand down there myself because I know clit stimulation is usually more pleasurable than penetration on it's own. If she pushed my hand away to do it herself I'd think I wasn't doing it how she likes and I'd try to pay attention to what she does so I can mimick it later. I don't take it personally.

  • Definitely arousing and not a turn-off. It's important for both partners to cum and feel fulfilled from sex.

  • Well hopelly i can rub it for her

  • Some girls cannot cum from vaginal alone


    Do you cum from vaginal alone?

    I just want to see you ladies cum

  • I love it and I know she's just adding to it and usually I'm the one directing her to get after it

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