How do you feel knowing your husband prefers younger women?

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I recently got married. It's an arranged marriage. I'm 31 and he is 29 but he prefers girls that are much younger. His behaviour towards me is pretty bland but he isn't rude. What should I do or what perspective should I have about this? And I'm not the sort to give a divorce right away unless one of us actually cheated.
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  • It’s human nature and across all species that youth is a universal attractant. So don’t feel bad. But what he might be wanting is something new, different and exciting. Many older couples have embraced an open marriage because they’ve come to this conclusion. Others tend to spice things up with new and exciting sex toys or sex play in the bedroom. Those that don’t tend to cheat or get divorced. I would recommend that you introduce something new. Think of it like your clothes. You have your favorites but you also like new things. The new things are shiny and exciting but the old ones are calming and comfortable. The new things eventually wear out and you revert to the old ones. with relationships it’s no different. As long as you love each other the new things will become old and he’ll come home to you. It also gives you the opportunity to find new things too. 🙂

Most Helpful Girl

  • I wouldn't be happy if my husband felt that way

    • Why is that?

    • @Breanna_nonbinary cuz it's just a cop out for being a pedo if a guy is into younger woman. Especially in this situation where the woman is only 30 like that is still young so very very weird for him to say that

Most Helpful Guys

  • This is one of the problems created by an arranged marriage rather then a marriage based on mutual love. It seems the fact that you're older then him doesn't help the situation.

    • Thank you for MHO, and actually I myself prefer women older then I am.

  • Do nothing. I "prefer" someone younger but I go home to my wife every night. 20 year old hardbodies would only be interested in my money.

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  • How do you know that for a fact. Even if he does like younger women if he's not with them or hanging out with them then there's no issue

  • Not much u can do but accept it I guess

    • If speaking to him has gotten u nowhere

    • I rather not bring that topic up at all with him, it might feel strange talking about it

    • So then all u can do is accept it

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  • So you can prefer young mans ahah and u can will be equal

    • I actually prefer older men

    • Than u can prefer older man than your husband

    • @isensei lol

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