How do you get sex off your mind when you’re single?

How do you get sex off your mind when you’re single?
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Superb Opinion

  • You can’t , you can try to control it the best you can , but sadly it’s not easy to do , if you already have a high sex drive and you already experienced physical sex , it’s hard to not want sex , it’s like a drug that you become addicted to. I was addicted to sex ever since I was a child , mainly because I was molested by an older woman , I won’t get into that , but sex has always been important to me , mainly when it comes to relationships When my ex and I broke up , it was just a matter of time , before I started craving intimacy and affection again. I didn’t want to hurry up and jump into another relationship , because I was still grieving over losing my ex , and didn’t have time to fully get her off of my mind , I felt sad and depressed that a new chapter was starting in my life. So to keep my mind off of things , I started focusing on myself and putting myself out there more , hanging out with friends , going to bars and concerts , playing on the internet , just mingling with people , before I knew it , I was meeting new girls’ that just wanted to have fun that liked to party and have sex with no care in the world , My advice man is just be honest , Most girls’ love honesty , and most girls’ love a guy that listens to them , if you listen to her , she will listen to you , just be her friend and don’t come on to her too strong , you can flirt with her and let her know you are interested and that you find her beautiful but don’t come on to strong. , once you both have a friendly connection with each other , just be honest with her, and ask her how would you feel about being FWB’s with me ? From my experiences, especially these days, , most females’ want that with a guy , because she doesn’t feel forced to be in a committed relationship right away. It gives you both time to really get to know each other while having amazing sex with each other before making the big decision to be committed to each other , if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be , if not , oh well we tried. The key is to just be honest. Sadly a lot of people have a hard time being honest with each other You aren’t going to get every girl , but your options will increase when you are honest and laid back and yes you will encounter some bad seeds along the way , but thatMs when you say Thanks for a good time but not a long time lol

    • Thanks for the thoughtful answer! 🙂

    • No problem man , I I know how it is lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • Here's the way I look at it. If you can't afford steak, only bologna. It does you no good to think about steak right? You're just going to to make yourself nuts. Personally I just think of all the downsides that go along with it. And as luck would have it, women come with A LOT of downsides.😆

    • This is undoubtedly true lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • Doing things like working out can help with that, even if it's just walking several laps each day. Then there's fun hobbies. And then anything else that can be said is just buy sex toys and masturbate yourself to orgasm (that would definitely work). Then your sexual tension or whatever we want to call it is gone.

  • Indulge in hobbies and passions (other than sex) and keep yourself fairly busy. But the interest in sex never completely goes away unless you're dead!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't get it on, in the first place... lol

  • I turn the channel off or switch it.

    • There’s a sex channel? 🤔

    • Three of them in my head. All pay channels.

    • That’s rough chica

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  • Just don’t think of it

    • And too late 😂

  • Jesus it's the answer.

    • Thinking of Jesus 🤔

    • He'll purge the impure thoughts away
      How do you get sex off your mind when you’re single?

    • Or make you have unpleasant home erotic fantasies Lolo

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  • Hump your fist bro!

  • Date. Or use a hook-up app?

  • I don't... why would I, lol

    • Frustration 😒

    • try becoming a fan of the Dallas Cowboys/NY Jets/Lebron James fan... could not think of a more impotent and put off feeling than that, lol

    • I suppose 🤣

  • Take up a hobby !

  • Unfortunately, we cannot

    • Ofcourse not. But to try is the noblest. Mastery of thy own domain.

  • I am just here lookin for an answer

  • Hobbies.

    • This jigsaw 🧩 puzzle just ain’t cutting it 😆

    • Isn't that one supposed to make you bleed XD

    • I hope not 😱

  • Well you could think about all the problems in your life, play a bit of sports type activity, go pick a fight or screw enough to keep it at bay.😯

    • Yikes 😬 lol

  • Nope

  • Think of having sex with Lizzo !!!

  • Masturbate to help relieve the sexual tension.

    • Of course 😎

    • Lol ☺️

    • Go with what works

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  • I'm struggling with the same shit bro! 🤣🥂🤣

  • Prostitutes.

  • Masturbate

  • Imagine being trapped in an elevator with a naked Donald Trump and a naked Lizzo, and they're both very hungry