How do you girls deal with a head push and holding while giving head?

I've been with a few guys and i have experienced this before where guy puts his hand/hands on my head and sort of controls my head and how deep i go. And also where they guy pushes either your head further down onto his penis or he kinda thrusts his penis in and out of my mouth... i wonder what are you other ladies view and guys why do you do this?
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  • I just go along with it.
    I find it pretty hot when my boyfriend gets so into my sucking him off that he pushes on my head a bit and/or thrusts upward. It's not like he picks himself up off the couch and pushes his dick down my throat balls-deep, ignoring any gagging so.. on the odd occasion that he does get a bit carried away, I 'deal' with it by pushing him away or pulling my mouth off his dick.

    • Has your boyfriend told you why he does it? And do you not feel a bit like he's treating you like a slut doing this? I am just curious on your thought i know that in relationships it isn't slutty

    • no I didn't really ask. Do I feel like he's treating me like a 'slut', or someone who's (wrongly) had multiple sexual partners within a short time span... Not in the slightest. Yes, we're both very sexually open (strictly with each other), even to the point that he calls me his own little slut. With which I have zero issue. I find nothing derogatory in my sexuality being acknowledged so long as the context itself is not actually offensive.

    • When you are in a relationship don't you find it exciting to engage in behavior that as a single person would be considered slutty? If you don't like it don't put up with it. Don't be a pushover and "deal with it" if you don't dig it

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  • I would definitely not go for forced deep throat, throating or face fucking. No nose pinching either guys. I don't know what's up with that in porn. The only time my husband holds my head during sex is when he's cumming into my mouth. He gently pulls my head back just before and as he cums into my mouth. That's okay with me because we both agree he's supposed to do that.

  • I'll try to 1. take him further into my mouth, 2. put my hands on his legs or stomach to keep him from pushing too far, or 3. tell him to go easier on me :o)

Most Helpful Guys

  • We do because it feels good and we do it some girls actually like or don't mind it. Another reason we know you will let us.

    • Well i guess i'm guilty of letting guys I've bee n with... i think it would be awkward to just stop

  • If you do t like it just let them know after... is that not just common sense?

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  • I love it when he holds and strokes my head while I give him a blowjob. But any pushing, pulling, or yanking won't go over well.

  • Honestly if you want to steer me I'm out. Either let me do my thing or don't get head. It's a power thing

  • I love it. It actually gets me hotter and makes me orgasm quicker.

  • It depends.

    If he's slow and not forcing it down too fast, it's a turn on. But if he tries shoving my head down even when I shake my head I'll get so pissed. That shit is the worst

  • You have teeth don't you? A little pressure works like magic.

    • This shit is golden 😂😂

  • Sooo dominant😍😍😍👅👏

  • Feels super good... why do you not like it?

  • as a guy I hate it when a girl will only go head deep, but I won't go pushing them deeper as I don't want them getting oissed at me with my dick in their mouth (too many horror movies)

  • I hate when guys do that.

  • i actually like it. my boyfriend and i switch it up a lot. sometimes he's in complete control, sometimes i am. so when he puts his hand on my head while i give him a head, it drives me crazy

  • its a gift to give a guy a bj but if hse starts being forcefull i would personaly bite on it lols , just to teach him a lesson

    • Lol leave your teeth lying in wait for the thrust to grate his penis :-P

    • he just lucky he getting it as a gift.

  • It feels better and is more exciting, but I can understand if she's not okay with it.