How do you give a BJ?

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I have absolutely no idea how, and I would really like to know

Dargil · Accepted Answer

There are different opinions about the play/teasing aspect of a a BJ, but if you look at it as therapy and follow this routine, you will get a successful outcome.
*A blowjob is not passionate sex. It is nurturing sexual therapy.
*Get him hard and ready by a hand job first. Best with lotion and using our own Lady Lotion from down below will (let him see you get it) will be even better.
*An effective blow job includes coordinated and properly timed use of both hands and mouth. Your mouth focuses on the head and your hands stroke the shaft and massage his ball sack..
*Gradually build sexual arousal/tension. Do not slow down or pause. He can lose momentum. Edging him to make him last longer is OK but be sure not to let him fade before building to orgasm.
*When you are ready for him to cum, bob and suck as quickly as you can sustain for maybe 3 minutes. Stroke as fast as you can with a moderate grip. Cup and lift his balls but stop massaging them.
*When ejaculation starts, stop ALL mouth motion. Moderate sucking only.
*Slow down, but keep stroking his shaft through to the last squirt. If you can master it, stroke between the later squirts but pause during the squirt.
*Stay locked on sucking lightly until he unplugs.
*A skilled blow job is not slutty. It is an act of love and nothing else makes a man feel more loved. A skilled BJ is Girl Power. If you get really good at it, and cheerfully give it whenever he asks, it can be cheating insurance. And this is always true:

MysticDevice · Accepted Answer

There's not exactly an instruction manual on this. However there are some methods that are known to work. First things first you have to get him aroused. Depending on if you two discuss this before hand or if you just surprise him. If you discuss it, he'll most likely be aroused in anticipation by the time you go down on him. If you surprise him I'd suggest rubbing him over his pants for a bit and then under, then pull his pants and boxers down. Fake him out like he's just getting a handjob. Once you have him totally aroused you can go for it. When you start out, slowly drag your tongue along the entire shaft once or twice before you take it in. Go very slow and be very gentle in the beginning and slowly pick up the the pace and slowly get more aggressive. Make lots of use with your tongue for it is a powerful tool, use your hands in combination with head bobbing and jerk him off with whatever methods you find most effective. occasionally come up for breath but continue using your hands while you do. Run your tongue along the whole shaft, and kiss and lick the tip before you go back down. Occasional eye contact is a powerful emotional stimulation. At the end for the finale, you'll probably want to decide beforehand where you want him to finish. Whether it's on your body somewhere or elsewhere. I guess the big thing is to be into it. If you look like you're having a good time then he'll definitely have one.

Hope that helps.

kyliesz · Accepted Answer

think of something really yummy like icecream or something you love to eat and imagine thats what you’re sucking on also think of how hot the person is and you want to see them having pleasure

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Hello love. Check out the take. One section tells guys how to eat and the other tells girls how to suck 😂

Hangry22 · Answer

Just take a big banana and try to suck on it

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Watch porn

chriscdi · Answer

i think as long as you dont use your teeth, you'll be fine

Wise4myage · Answer

Watching lots of BJ porn can help you. But just dive in and go for it, but don't use teeth and make sure you play with his balls.

jasco · Answer

Suck it the way you would a loli pop without using your teeth

Twalli · Answer

Wrap your lips around his penis move up and down with it in your mouth. Play with it using your tounge. Provide suction and try to avoid having your teeth touch it.

GAGSucksBalls1 · Answer

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michael1469 · Answer

So, i only get them. So i have no experience to give.

Benjamin1971 · Answer

put penis between your lips and start sucking it as if you want to pull something out of penis and during sucking use your tongue to stimulate it more.

Board_Tennis77 · Answer

take the tip of your mouth first and try to get it all

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