I hear stories how some guys can play a girl and mess with her feelings. Or like become your boyfriend just for sex. How can a girl tell if a guy is playing messing with your feelings?
I think you can tell. It’s pretty easy to tell when a person actually believes in what they are saying. But that requires more than just texting on a regular basis. Unfortunately nowadays, real communication between people is a lost art. Real communication, the sort of communication that allows you to read someone else involves body language, tone of voice, facial expressions, and actually being in their presence and feeling the person.
If a guy is playing you he will be more about funny non serious talk and suave about his behavior. Everything he says out of his mouth will be to impress you and he will show no real passion behind why he likes you or what makes up who he is in life. He will not be willing to be vulnerable and tell you what his concerns are in life. He won’t talk about just anything with you but rather focus on whatever it takes to butter you up so that you will easy let him down your pants. Men who are real don’t do that kind of crap or play those games. They act themselves and they want to have a real conversation regardless of how it makes them look. Because they want to be honest and want you to be honest too.
0 0 0 0Also, is he willing to look at you and make eye contact when he talks to you? If not, then he has something to hide. Sex is something that must be earned. Not with money obviously, but with trust, respect, honesty, and love.
Most Helpful Guy
You can't tell what anyone is thinking. All you see is their behavior. Don't give more than you are getting. Have sex because YOU want to have sex. Understand that you can't trade sex for love or commitment.
0 0 0 0So your saying there’s no way to tell if a guy is playing with your feelings ,?
No, the only way to judge his intentions is by his actions. If you don't to trade sex for commitment, then you can't be "played"
Most Helpful Girl
Best way that guys hate and rarely put up with is...
NO SEX
No giving in letting them touch just no sex it is hand holding and kissing only.
Tell them at least 6 months and if they push make it a year! If they are worth it then they will stick around waiting for you!
Girl power!
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0 5If he sounds too good to be true, he is.
0 0 0 0Let him know right off the bat. You are not having sex, so keep things for real.
0 0 0 0Get to know someone, you can tell over time if they are fake or not. Some people play games and you will find out through their actions.
0 0 0 0people play with feelings not just guys, go beyond gender judgements!
0 0 0 0acts insincerely insincere, does not talk much.
0 0 0 0How do you know they are acting that way? Like pretending? What if they r good at acting and you can’t tell if they r being genuine or not
I'm sure you feel it.
I really don’t know I don’t have much experience
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